Collarspace

formerly SirDiscreteOne,

Update 92218
Recently developing a interest in trans and sissies, if this is you us should be passable and willing to meet as your femme persona!!! Also recently been the victim of quite a bit of ghosting, if you get cold feet, lose interest or whatever reason ghosting is not necessary... a simple 2 word communication of no thanks will suffice for me to not contact you.

Also recently for unsure reasons My BBC 10 x 2.5 seems to not be responding to me wether if be diabetes related or something else I am looking for a skilled mouth, ass or pussy to test and or solve this questionable lack of interest. So if you are up to a challenge lets talk.

If you are looking for financially stable, that is not me at the moment... yes I am mentally and emotionally stable. If you are willing to be by my side at my feet when things are bad ( No I dont want your money) the more trust and respect will be earned as things get un-bad.

... I expect you to take and make the initiative to contact me first...

I know what and who I am, I also have read more profiles of you subs that say you know what and who you are... If that is the case why do you womengirls act like this is a vanilla dating site... it is not. Yes I want to do vanilla things with my girl... but that is pointless if we are not lifestyle compatible. this is also not the 50s, 60s, 70s nor 80s or 90s. we are also not children nor teenagers... we are functioning adults looking for a compatible lifestyle mate. I am not going treat this site like a vanilla site, this is not a dating site (per-se) it is a kink site as as such I am looking for a kink first vanilla second compatible partnerlt relationship Partnership. Also, If I have added you to my favorites, I have found something in your profile I think fits with me and I would like to talkmeet to see if there is truth an compatibility between us. yes meet or talk via phone. It can be at Dennys, a bar, a park... it can be anywhere public or not. I am open to multiple situations... I am LOL semi human after all and I have needs... so while I look, I am open to play partners. If more develops great and if not then it doesnt.

Yes I am a sadist but only to those that are masochistic, if it is sexual play what you desire? Then yes I might be interested, but... please be able to keep up... my drive and intensity are much more than most of you can or want handle.

With that being said, I am also open to doing just vanilla things as well, and would like to do them with like minded people. so if you would like to just hang out say so and be serious about it.

Heres hoping

WARNING LONG RAW NON-FICTITIOUS PROFILE BELOW!!!If you see that I added you to my favorites it means I would like you to say hi. The reason I want you to say Hi first is to show reciprocated interest! if you have truly read my complete and honest profile you will know if you want to talk meet me. if you only look at my pics we are not going to be a match. Save us both valuable time ... I use adding you to my favorites to show you I am interested. All I ask is you to say Hi!I want a relationship, but will settle for a play partnerlovertoy for now. If you are a magic The gathering fanplayer even better as it is now my new vanilla stress relief.

Lets start off with saying... some of you will call me a freak (Yea!!! I like that label and am very proud if it!!!)But I digress, lets get the normalvanilla (as I call it) stuff out of the way!Am I funny I think so because I have made many laugh to tears (Hmmm, Tears are sexy... Oops! that doesnt belong in this section!)I am not typical by most standards but then again if I was how boring would that be. I like the beach just not during the day, If you havent noticed ( My apologies to the visually impaired and handicapped) Im black and the last thing I need is a tan! And no sunblock does not help... trust me on this one! I love dive bars, pubs and pool halls. While I like to Dance I am not a fan of clubs. The reason for that is in the past I have done many things for work and Bouncing and Cooling was one of them, and every time I seem to go to a club I end up in BouncerCooler mode and spend more time watching who to watch out for than I do having fun, since that is what I am supposed to do when I am with you right? I am supposed to be the man and your safety while with me is something I take seriously... even when we are having fun. I am the Chivalrous Gentleman (most of the time (it does slip my mind from time to time) i.e. if you smoke I will light your cigarette ( Oh Ladies so you know... if a guy lights you cig never cover the flame because it is his responsibility to see and know when it is lit he should take it away once it is lit. If you cover it then he cant see it.), when we are walking across the street you should always be on the side of me that is opposite traffic, I will get your car and most doors (Once again ladies... when a guy opens your car door, Be the lady and hit the unlock or reach over and unlock his door while he is walking around... if the door are unlocked by remote reach over and pull the handle for him to get it... This chivalry thing has rules that go both ways).My other hobbies I like pool both swimming and table (billiards), darts, bowling, people watching, shopping yes I like to shop and I promise you I can shop rings around most of you and could dress most of you quite well... I have a few female friends that take me with them when they shop so they can get an honest point of view from a mans perspective and if they tell me what their goal is for the outfit or event I will make sure you turn heads at said event.I am a no nonsense logical kind of guy that is full of emotion. I am down to earth respectful (dont miss understand my kindness and me being a gentleman though I speak my mind and will quickly put you in your place should you step out of it...) I only used to be the nice guy... Now I am the smart one. My favorite food is Italian, I like spicy food not hot food.I Pride myself on my honesty... why would I need to lie to you or anyone else... if I screw up I will own up to it... I expect you to be the same way... if I am wrong I will admit I amwas wrong.I am not your typical guy, I have done more and lived more than most my age but in my heart I am still a big kid. I use spell check (most of the time LOL), I am spontaneous but dont like surprises, I am complex but my daily goal in life is simplicity, I have been know to be romantic but Nahhhh who wants a romantic man, I like most music but rap and country western (I love country not country western). I realized a few weeks ago I have never been to a museum, opera nor a zoo... I would like to change that.I am on various Vanilla and kink sites to find a BDSM AND Poly ( Dont run because you see the word poly) friendly or compatible (A.K.A kinky submissive or slave mindset) woman (and just because you are submissive or slave minded DOES NOT mean you are weak or worthless or have low self esteem... Some of the strongest and most stable women I know are submissive!!! so for all you that think otherwise... Dont hate those that can do and be just what their heart mind and body desire.) I am waiting and searching for the elusive woman or women (Notice I said woman.women not girl) who is active or wishing to be active in a Real life physical Ds type relationship Partnership(No cyber, no online, if I type to you more than I can touch you itwe will not happen)... if you have a low sex drive or you can take or leave sex I am not interested. If you are looking for a take charge kinda man... that is me. If you not kinky I am not for you. no men and I must be honest and frank up front, no women of color... Dont hate, it is my choice. I am