Hello, my name is Dove.

I am 53yr old BBW, Pagan, Pansexual bi-sexual and poly. I am widowed. I identify as a *house slave*, and that is where my head space is. Yet, I have also enjoyed both aspects of bottoming and Topping in play dynamics. Will switch for the right person, but I do prefer bottoming.

I am also a published writer of BDSM

I am employed. I have a home, job and vehicle. Im not looking to change those things

I am bisexual. So gender does not matter to me. Personality does. Id like to say age doesnt matter, but for me it does. I dont want to play with or be in a relationship with someone under the age of 50.

I just think it would be awkward for me to relate to someone who is close in age to my grown children.

I thrive on discipline, structure, and the service aspects of the lifestyle, be it as a domestic servant, personal assistant, chauffeur, cook, pet care, boot black, or any other avenue I can be of service.

I am a firm believer in * H.A.R. D.- honor accountability responsibility and duty and that this is a practice I hold dear, and believe can be practiced by submissiveslaves, not only the D-types or M-types.

* I practice R.A.C.K. - risk aware consensual kink.

* I have a hard time with SSC (safe, sane and consensual) because much of what we do is seen by society as not safe, and not sane, and who draws the line of distinguishing what is and isnt safe or sane?

* I believe that subsslaves are equal in value as persons, but that we consent to be lesser in status within the relationship dynamics of our choosing.

* Life is a school teaching us lessons along the way. Even in difficult or negative situations, one can always find a lesson if one looks and thinks about it.

I have several years experience in the lifestyle, and have taken many classes to hone my skills. Some of these classes include but are not limited to tea service, boot blacking, Effective Ds communication, Personal Service, Finding and Maintaining Fulfillment in Submission, Protocols, From Maid Ready to Dominant Ready, Hospitality the Heart of Service, Poly Relationships, Loving Ds Communication, home health care, CPR and 1st Aide, card making, craft classes, just to name a few... I also was a co-founder of the group Hearts in Service and helped run that group for just over 5yrs, both online, and we held monthly munches.

I have been employed in a professional field I love for over 9yrs now. I love my job, as it gives opportunity for me to be of service, and make an impact in peoples lives.

I DO NOT ACCEPT RANDOM FRIEND REQUESTS. IF YOU WANT TO SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST, LET ME KNOW IF I ALREADY KNOW YOU IN REAL LIFE, OR AT LEAST SAY HELLO AND INTRODUCE YOURSELF BEFORE SENDING ME A FR.

As ever feel free to contact my Owner Hawk56