I am a sensual Domme. Too bad they do not have an option for two role deors  If you are looking for an overly strict, sadistic, or high protocol Domme, it is not me.

I do not fit the mold of the stereotypical Domme. Do not expect me to be demanding and domineering right away! I want to know you on a basic level first, your personality aside from your submissiveness. Do not call me mistress or goddess. Honorifics and titles are reserved for the submissive I choose.

I am currently searching for a male who is submissive and who wants the same relationship as me: a long term relationship in real life, no online only. I am not looking for someone suitable to just occupy my time until something else comes along; I want something true and forever. If you are not open to marriage, should we ever get to that point, you are not what I am looking for.

The dynamic I am aiming for is level 3 FLR, but due to beliefs and obligations, it will not be 24/7 right away. Although I am single, I am not in a position to live with anyone right now. I also do not want control of your finances, unless I am married to you and we mutually agree. You will have rules, routines, chores, and responsibilities. I expect obedience, and you will carry out my demands willingly. Decisions outside of finances will be mine to make, but I do value your opinions and input. You may have autonomy at work, but social activities outside of work must be approved. I know an FLR sounds impossible if partners do not live together, but if you want it bad enough, it will work. Obviously, we must live near each other in the beginning. Robots and doormats need not apply.

Please pass me by if you are younger than 35 or older than 55. I know age is just a number, but I have my reasons.

Single guys only.  I do not mess with married guys, even if they have consent from their spouse.

I am wanting a monogamous, committed relationship with an emotional connection; trust, honesty, intimacy, and respect are a must. Anything without a connection is just kinky sex, and I want more than that. D/s has more meaning and depth when you love your partner and are invested in their true happiness. My sub will be possesively owned, fully cherished, loved deeply, and intimately cared for.

I am not into anything casual or just play. I want a real romantic relationship within a D/s dynamic. If you are just wanting a play partner or FWB, please pass on by.

I am a Christian kinkster. I know the deor Christian kinkster is an oxymoron, but I cannot help it. It is who I am and what makes me, well, me. Ideally, I would like to find another Christian. If my following Jesus is an issue, then a relationship with me is not going to work. My faith is very important to me, and it is not something I will compromise.

I am an educated, creative, and artistic individual. As a country girl at heart and former farm owner, I love animals, especially horses. I am an introverted person, but can be extroverted when the situation calls for it. Some people have called me a loner because being alone and on my own does not really bother me. I am also quiet and observant.  I love to make things with my hands especially artwork, listen to music, spend time doing most anything outdoors and in nature, read, and have adventures while exploring new places. Since I am on a weight loss and fitness journey, I want someone who is also into health and fitness. I do not want distractions. I am a sapiofile and INFJ, and I speak time and touch love languages.