So this happened;  I finally get my girlfriend to say yes to marriage but there is something I need to know first.  She explained that for a long time she has felt like she was really a man and that she was now ready for gender reassignment (FtM).  She would still marry me but when the reassignment was complete, he would take his "rightful"position as head of the hosehold.

I couldn't have been happier because I was witholding my own secret and that was that I had wanted to get gender reassignment (MtF) and could we go through the process together?  I couldn't have been more excited, it was a dream come true.

But it was a short lived dream since I found out that my (still a girl)friend had someone else in mind when thinking about getting married.  I was devastated but did not want to go back to my days of pretending I was normal.  I wanted to be a woman and I wanted to be married to a reassigned (FtM) man. 

I know this sound 's made up but it is true.  Okay, okay, I left out the part about not getting the reassignment earlier because I knew my family would freak out and that I am going to continue to hide it from themfor as long as possible, but it's still all the truth.

So, anyone want to get married and switch identity's?