I'm looking for an attractive, in shape(as in HWP), fun woman/women that likes to do things like travel(international and domestic), dine out, movies, and whatever else comes to mind with an in shape, muscular, fun guy. Here's the twist: She needs to appear (vanilla) in public but behind closed doors I want a submissive into BDSM. I don't care if you have any experience in this lifestyle or not. This could be a full time thing or occasional get together s. I'm a non smoker you be too. Will swap pictures later but not interested in endless emails before meeting. Open to all races.