What happened to the emails, there is no link to access any longer. 
Birthdays are wonderful!
Someone who claims to be a sub, and states that they "wish" to be dominated "this way" doesn't make them a sub, it makes them kinky.
I've seen the following written many ways before, so I thought I would edit it to my liking as I don't know who the original author was..
1. If your “must have” is one of my hard limits/dislikes, this should be a clue to you this won’t happen.
2. Boys, you have to have time. If you are too busy at work, dealing with your children, booked solid with activities, you are not going to have time for this, then this is not for you. Establishing mutual trust so that each has enjoyment for scening, takes time. At the very least, a basic relationship takes time to grow and build that trust. Again, this takes time!
3. “I just want to try it out to see if I like it.” Ok, find a reputable pro-domme, they are out there. A lifestyle Dominatrix does this because she finds BDSM enjoyable and likes the submissive she is with. Remember the term “basic relationship” from #2?
4. Just looking for quick weird/kinky sex? Hire a prostitute. That’s what they do for the right amount of money. There are also some sites just for people who put out. Just because a woman enjoys D/s does not mean that she has sex more than the vanilla woman or with every man. It also does not mean she has questionable morals. You know that there are women who don’t have sex with their submissive, right?
5. If your profile does not impress me as “Here’s a person I can proudly be seen in public with and introduce to my friends” I’m not interested.
6. If you don’t have the balls to show up to an in person meeting and actually talk in person to a real live breathing Dominatirx, Don’t bother to contact me. Please contact your physician to discover why your testicles have not descended yet. There is probably medical help for you.
7. A lifestyle Dominatrix is not your fetish delivery system. With me it’s a partnership, both sides benefit.
8. You should have your shit together you’re an adult.
9. Women are not men. The vast majority of us don't watch porn. We are not interested in what you think is "hot" AND we don't want to see it. If we ask to see it, then by all means, COMPLY.
10. Your lead in line or profile says: "I'm an oral sub, toilet slave, worthless worm, want to be your whore, am a chuckhole, like it in the ass." This tells me you are creepy as hell. Read number 5 & 8 again.
11. "I want to be your live in slave. I'll cook, clean and do all the housework, while you work and pay all the bills. You can spank my ass and creatively fuck me when you get home." Yea, you and a whole bunch of other people on the planet want a free ride. Get a life and gainful employment to pay your bills. Re-read number 10.
12. Talk is cheap. Do what you say you are going to do. If you can't back it up, shut up.
Why would anyone want to add you as a friend and has never communicated with you EVER?
