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Sparkster
Hetero Male, 55, TorontoOntario, Canada 
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Sparkster

A straight Dominant from Toronto, Ontario (Born and raised). I am strict and demanding with a definite sadistic streak, yet understanding and caring with those who think before they speak, place thought before action, and logic before emotion when appropriate.

I desire someone with intelligence. This does not necessarily mean you have to have a degree in anthropology, or a PHD in physics, or know how to speak latin, or have knowledge of every worldly topic.

What it means is that I desire someone with common sense and an open mind. Someone who can learn, grow, and grasp ideas and concepts without requiring a picture be drawn out on a chalk board each and every time something new is discussed.

Granted, sometimes sitting her down at an old school desk, while I as the teacher write things out on the chalk board and then give her some homework and perhaps private lessons or exams that have to be passed to avoid detention can be fun. Although...sometimes detention is even more fun.

I am seeking someone local, as distance can be a hindrance for both sides as time goes on so I would expect that as the commitment progressed, relocation would become a factor.

I do prefer someone that is younger than myself, but I do not place *strict* stipulations on race, color, build, appearance, nor background. However, I do have an affinity for those who are busty, but then we all have specific physical characteristics that we enjoy in a partner. I am not a religious person and do not follow any specific faith as I believe faith is best placed in ones self and in those that you care about and love.

I expect a lot of those who become involved with me, but I also give a lot in return. I have been involved with BDSM for over 30 years and I have trained and owned 2 slaves during that time. Each individually lived with me in my home for 13 of those years with a 1.5 year gap between. I have been single now for many years and I am in search of the right match.

I was semi-involved in the BDSM community around the GTA and I am still known by a few in the community. I use to attend events around the city, however I have not attended any in the recent past.

I know what I desire and what I need. And I am patient enough to wait until I find the right one who can provide for those desires and needs, and with whom I can provide what they desire. I am very capable of providing for the needs and desires of a slave. I am also capable of training a slave, teaching them about their desires, and guiding them in the self discovery of what exists within them.

I am very open minded, and have interests in, and enjoy, many different fetishes and aspects of BDSM. I will state up front that having a sadistic side, those who are not into pain-pleasure might find my desires and likes to be too much for them. As my nickname infers, I enjoy electrical play. But I also enjoy many other things, including edge play, mental and physical bondage and domination, sensation play, humiliation play, objectification, percussion play, pressure play, watersports, and many others which are too many to be listed here.

Every person and every relationship is different. Hence why acceptance of others for who they are, how they are, what their kinks are, and what they enjoy is one of the founding principles of BDSM. So long as what they do doesnt directly effect others in a negative manner. (An if you dont like it dont do it or watch it type of belief).

I am creative by nature, quick witted, spontaneous, and have a very good, albeit slightly warped, sense of humor. I enjoy laughing and I enjoy life. I like camping, playing sports and I tend to be somewhat competitive. Although, I tend to dislike watching sports on TV or in person. When it comes to sports, I very much prefer being a participant than a spectator.

I enjoy movies, games, carpentry, electronics, and computers, and I enjoy music (listening to it, playing it, and on occasion, singing it). I enjoy going out every so often, however, I am more so a home person and enjoy time spent at home with someone I care about.

I enjoy cuddling with that someone special with a bowl of popcorn watching TV or a good movie. And at other times, I enjoy having a slave curled up at my feet and just talking. And still other times, I enjoy nights of rough, hard, heavy play till the wee hours of the morning (when lifes schedule allows for it).

I am seeking someone to get to know at first. To explore each others minds and share thoughts with and see if there are shared interests. To see if compatibility exists on the basic levels. And in time, if the chemistry and desire exists, to meet and take things from there and eventually to become involved with them. And in the long term to move towards a full time live in Ms relationship.

I dont do online scenes or role play. Nor do I do online collars unless someone is owned by me in real life and the collar is there to represent that. Collars are an indication of ownership. And to me are for the purpose of indicating real life ownership. Only 2 slaves have ever worn mine. One is no longer with us and the other parted ways with me amicably when we discovered we were growing in different directions.

Complete honesty and open mindedness are a must, as is the ability to communicate openly regardless of the subject or discussion. There should never be secrets, nor a reason to have or keep secrets, nor to hide feelings. I firmly believe that open communication is the key to any relationship.

While searching for a long term partner, I am open to the possibility of a monogamous casual play partner. Someone who would enjoy getting together on a casual basis if a full time Ms relationship was not possible. Whether it be simply a close Ds oriented friendship, or to teach someone about the lifestyle and help them explore who they are and guide them, is up to what both desire from the friendship or the relationship.

I live on my own (save for my cats), work a weird schedule, and own both 2 wheeled and 4 wheeled transportation.

I am respectful to those who are deserving of it, and treat people with common courtesy unless they have shown me a reason to remove that courtesy.

I am drug, disease, and issue free and fully expect the same of those I become involved with or create friendships with.

I rarely drink alcohol, although I dont mind very mild consumption on an occasional basis. I use to smoke (cigarettes only), but I quit cold turkey in early 2014 when the price of them became too extravagant to justify.

If you wish to get to know more about me, who I am, and what I am about, then feel free to e-mail me.

And to those of you who get this far, yes I am long winded and have a lot to say, but that is only because I prefer to provide a more accurate impression of who I am, and how I am. -)

Be safe...

8/24/2011 8:50:48 AM: Ya know...the other day I bought myself one of them new fangled solid deoderant sticks. I read the directions on the back of it and it said 'Remove cap, push up bottom'. So I did. Well...I walked kinda funny for a while...but now everytime I fart, it smells all floral... So why is it that 30 or 40 years ago...most families lived well on a single parent income and the other parent was in the home to raise the child and teach them self-discipline, responsibility, and to instill values and morals... But today...more often than not, both parents have to work full time and put in WELL above 40 hours a week in order to provide that same level of comfort which results in stress, health issues, and those children not getting the same attention we did as kids and not getting taught those same values... The primary focus of a person use to be family first, then job, then self. Now a days for most people (if not all), it's job first, then self, then family. What changed? Prices on every consumer product continues to go up, and at the same time, the product is made cheaper, with less quality, or is made smaller in size for the same price.Ever wonder why the price on a grocery item jumps up 2 dollars and then suddenly drops back down 2 dollars with a 'New reduced price' advertisement? Next time you see that, compare the size/weight of the product to it's previous size. Most people don't notice the reduction from a 540 gram box to a 515 gram box for the same price. But total that 25 grams per box up across a truckload of product and you suddenly see how much extra money a corporation rakes in for that same truckload while secretly reducing the value to the consumer. Have you ever seen a company advertise about the new 'smaller' sized box or container of their product for the same price? Why is it that many of the small and medium sized businesses no longer exist or are struggling to stay afloat? Perhaps because they were or are being forced out by large conglomerates and corporations that continue to demand more market share, more profits, lower costs, reduced employee costs (ie: reduced wages or less people to do the same amount of work). And all to increase the bottom line for share holders who already make huge profits from the shares they own, but each and every year expect more money than the year before for the same number of shares. Yet they give their CEO's and CFo's multi-million dollar bonuses each year...often for mis-managing the company and it's assets to generate current year profits without long term vision and being the CAUSE of their need for a buy-out or government grants, or the need to layoff hundreds if not thousands of hard working employees just to cover the costs for their bad management. And 99 times out of 100, those CEO's or CFO's only stay with the corporation for a few years and move on to another one for more money. Meanwhile, they run the company into the ground to make as much as they can for themselves in those few years they are there and then leave behind a mess for the next guy to try and clean up. And the new guy ends up doing the same. Using words like 'we need to restructure', or 'we need to focus our efforts', or 'we need to reduce costs', just to fix the mess made by the last guy and all the while make more for themself by expecting million dollar bonuses for fixing the mess. (And why a bonus? Isn't that their job and what they are being paid to do in the first place?) None of this is done for the benefit of mankind. It's not for the benefit of the employees or the company/corporation. It's not to provide better products or services. Nor is it to improve the quality of life for people. But to simply make more money and line the pockets of the top level excutives and share holders, who btw rarely pay taxes on a lot of that income. Rarely do these executives look at the long term. They are simply in it to make as much as they can over 2 or 3 years and then move to another company or corporation before the fallout occurs from their short term profit plans which often cause long term financial problems. It's well known that the smaller businesses and the average joe are the ones who promote growth, pay taxes and fuel the economy. Corporations rarely do because of corporate taxation loopholes. They just demand more profits for themselves and give less in return. Corporations may provide jobs to a large portion of the work force, but at what cost in the long term? And how many of those employees actually see positive growth in their position within a corporation? How many simply jump ship to another corporation for more money that has the same issues? Most parents are sacrificing time with their family while doing the work of 3 employees for (when you factor in current cost of living) much less compensation than what 1 employee use to earn, with very little reward or recognition for their efforts. The world is going to hell in a hand basket. And we are all just along for the ride. And it will not be many more years before it happens...the world economy is going to fall out from under us. Big time. It's not a matter of if...it's just a matter of when. And that 'when' is approaching sooner than many think...

3/27/2011 9:26:36 AM: Maybe I see or read too much behind the statements of others. Or perhaps I just have a tendancy to break down and analyze what people state. But, I read some statements some women on here have stated and I have to wonder if they realize how much of a double standard they interject with their complaints. It's easy to spot the fake profiles. And to spot the profiles that depict (and sometimes scream of) a needy person who just wants their fix without any substance. The honest statements people place in their profiles are often the ones that reflect both a negative and positive trait about themself and a desire to improve upon that trait when possible. My profile (like everyone else's) is basically an advertisement about 'me'. They all can easily be compared to a sales pitch, where the product is yourself and you are also the salesperson. So overselling and underselling can easily occur. As can embellishments and omissions within those sales pitches. I don't have any 'cock pics' on my profile. I don't see the need to have them. But, others may feel the need to do so or have their reasons to do so. But, I often see women stating in their journals and profiles that they don't want to see those pics on a man's profile. And while reading those statements, I am often staring at their naked or semi-naked breasts on screen. Many men advertise their 'endowments' on here in the same manner many women advertise their own endowment. And they both do so for the similar reasons. To attract, to their profile, those who have an interest in what they see. Does that mean there is nothing more to them as a person? Granted, there are some who simply are using those types of pics to get attention or to advertise for sexual exploits (rather than D/s or M/s interactions). But they aren't *all* just out looking for sex. If a man was to send a singular comment to a woman about the image of her breasts on her profile, he would be looked down upon and shunned. And many women have stated such as well. Yet, women can make singular comments about a cock pic, and often they get a positive response back. Why is it that women feel it is ok to show off their bodies to attract a potential mate and then feel they can respond negatively when we openly and honestly tell them that we were first attracted to their profile by it? But if a man does the same to attract a mate, he is shunned or belittled just for having the picture on their profile. And again, I don't have cock pics and have never put any pictures of that nature on here. I just find it strange that in a time when the 'sexes' are suppose to be equal, other than when one (be it male or female) submits to another (again, be it male or female) yet, men are still seen as posturing or crude for posting a picture of their genitals when those same women who complain often have naked breasts pics on their profile?  Some might claim it is because women feel they are more refined, classy, or reserved. Or above that type of thing. And yet, they are searching for someone special to strip away that class and refinement and turn them into a slut within their own bedroom. And when I say 'someone' I refer to that specific person who they desire that from. Not just 'any' man.  Sometimes I tend to believe that many women still haven't fully come out of the closet and are still hiding behind societies interpretation of what is prim and proper. Instead of just living their life they way they desire it to be. Granted, there is nothing wrong with being prim and proper and 'a lady' in public and a slut in the bedroom. But why hide that aspect here when most are seeking someone to share their life and their bedroom with? Why be shy and insecure about your physical appearance? If someone is going to find you attractive (no matter what body type or bust line you have) they will do so because they desire you as a *person*.  If they are only interested in your physical attributes, that is easily discovered and they simply can be walked away from.  If that happens to be what you are looking for, then you have found it. Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If they are open and honest about themself and what they seek, the odds favour them finding what they want or need.  As a saleperson, would you hide the extra's that come with a product? So then, why begrudge others for placing pictures or truth in their own advertising (as long as the pic is actually theirs) and state they are being crude or ignorant while doing the same in your own profile with pictures of cleavage and/or more?  Just be yourself. And let others be who they are. If you don't match up, both can just move on to the next profile. Neither person benefits when one belittles another just because they don't match their needs or desires or interests. Just move on. Life is too short. Don't sweat the petty things. Pet the sweaty things. ;-)  

10/4/2010 6:48:00 PM: The weather is turning colder and riding season is fast coming to an end. Off to hibernate in the warmth of my home until spring returns. With regards to riding that is. A shame that it's been difficult to find someone compatible with myself over the past 6 years. Perhaps I'm too fussy. Or perhaps...I'm just selective and waiting to find the right one. Although there are times when I do find myself wondering....how long will it take? Patience and vigilence... traits that we often challenge ourselves with.

6/3/2010 6:05:48 AM: Looking forward to spending a relaxing and enjoyable time at TEASE in July and hopefully meet up with a few people, who I haven't spoken to for a while, as well as meet up with others who I haven't met yet.

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