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AoxomoxoA
| Hetero Male, 41, Auckland, New Zealand
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Auckland New Zealand 5' 8"
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Caucasian
07/19/23 |
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Hello Aall.
Im too busy these days to do more than chat occasionally. If youre curious, bored, or are just looking for an online friend, reach out. If youre looking for something more, Im not the Dom for you... but Im happy to give you independent advice if youre struggling to find the right Dom and need guidance.
Aox
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3/20/2015 6:48:47 PM: The number of kinksters in NZ who have found collarspace is entirely too small. Tell your friends to join!
3/10/2014 3:01:15 AM: I've been pondering my recent experiences in O/our collective world and realize that I am very atypical. I am Dominant, but not a brute. I am strict, with cause, but not purely Sadistic. I expect strict obedience, but I believe such obedience should be given willingly because I have proven Myself worthy, not because I am merely physically abusive. A truly submissive woman is a blessing, as she recognizes her place in the world. There cannot be light without shadow and there cannot be Dominance without submission. I refuse to deal with 'brats', as they are playing games and are not truly submissive. The subs I seek are incredibly rare and, therefore, are incredibly valuable to Me; I will not share them or otherwise devalue them in My eyes. As W/we bond, her Yin to my Yang, the trust and fulfillment deepen until W/we are inseparable.
Are you seeking Me or am I seeking you? Send Me a message.
4/20/2013 9:27:21 PM: Finding the right sub here in NZ is incredibly frustrating. Kiwi women are great, but far too many lack the elusive submissive gene. ;-)
Yes, my standards are high, but I don't apologize for that.
4/1/2013 10:01:07 PM: Lots of stress at the moment. Anyone need a good solid caning? ;-)
3/2/2013 1:53:34 PM: I've been a Dom for a long time and some of the changes I've seen in recent years...especially in those new to the BDSM dynamic... bother Me.
Too many subs try to top from the bottom and too many 'Doms' let them. At the risk of shocking some of you newbies, there are some things you should know:
The Dom makes the decisions, not the sub. As My sub, you will do what I ask you to do, when I ask you to do it and you will do it because you *want* to do it. I don't have time for those who try to test the power dynamic. Accept it and love it or you will be cut loose.
I will use you how and when I see fit.
I will maintain complete control of the relationship. Any freedoms you have will be because you have proven yourself worthy and I have granted them to you.
you will be completely open and honest with Me at all times. If you fail, you will admit it and accept the correction that follows.
I expect you to share your fears, concerns, limits and feelings with Me. However, I will ultimately decide what is best for you and you will accept this, knowing that I am your Dom and I will make the right decision.
In return, you have My guidance, care and protection. I take very good care of My subs or slaves, but you must earn your place.
Do I make Myself clear?
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