I am a submissive sadomasochist kitty, looking for meaningful connections. Im 44, though most people mistake me for younger. Kinks include rope bondage and flogging, though what really gets me is power exchange. Im experienced, yet receptive to training. I tend to be eager to please, and enjoy service.



Mundanely, I game, and paint, along with copious binge watching on Netflix. I am very much a geek.



I am tattooed and pierced. Obsessed with Egypt, 7 of my 8 tattoos are hieroglyphs. Though I am very much a cat person, I have a wonderful Pomeranian as a companion and ESA.

I am spiritual, and love discussing comparative religions. I try to keep myself aware politically and socially. I am also decidedly liberal.



I am exploring polyamory, and am looking for friendships that can turn into more.  I am not looking for FWB or NSA.  I am looking at solo dating, rather than looking for couples or to be a unicorn.

You should be compassionate, patient, and intelligent.  I am bi, so gender is not terribly important.  I prefer to consider other aspects of compatibility.



I want people who I can laugh and cry with, who will push me as much as they are inspired by me. I want to fall in love, and be loved in return. Im not 18. I know these things take time. But Im willing to put in the work of you are.