I am 34 years old and successful in my everyday life. Its for that reason I am submissive in my private life, which is were it has to stay because of my career, hence not a public player.With that said I am not new to the world of bdsm and have always enjoyed it. Have tried both dominant and submissive but found I am more truly submissive, even somewhat masochistic, it offers me that release from the stresses of real life everyday.Ideally I am looking for a relationship with someone who is dominant in private and appears normal in everyday life but am open to talk to anyone and see where things go. Just a bdsm partner works for me too, I am open )