5/29/2012 5:54:03 PM: I seen something on a news channel where Guy said those who served in miltary that we shouldn't  just label them heroes and that we thrown the title of heroes around alot lately .   Now this got him in heaps of trouble cause it made him seem as he was not grateful .   my thoughts on matter is the man was right  a cop is not hero cause he does his job or fireman or someone in miltary ...these people know what there getting into and thats makes them Brave .   A hero is not someone who does heroic act cause its job , a hero is person who did it without question , without thought they did it in split of moment .   the people on flight 19 on 9/11 were heroes    Much like wording people use in the lifestyle and without and  the real world people throw titles  around without much thought and quick to judge person that just expresses thought !  

5/28/2012 3:29:05 PM: I like to deal with open minded people and not ones who just agree with for sake to agree there a big difference .   when it comes to me and finding My one and its very simple at my age to know what I want rather then settle for something less which always fails .( thats experince talking !).   I seek the one who be the fuel to my Fire which would lead to burning inferno that would burn mentally physically and mainly the spirit. A Fire that would be burning ying and yang .   and that what I seek nothing more nothing less , simple ! (or maybe not ! )    

5/26/2012 8:43:34 PM: I am sorry to say No I do not have the power to part the Red Sea , I am just a Dom not a god .   sometimes  you need to loose a few battles to win a war ! and somtimes when you win a war you still loose .

4/23/2012 1:34:04 PM: I see that many don't grasp the meaning of BDSM and to know it is not game .   You want games I am sure there over thousand on the net you can enjoy . You want Fantasy then there plenty of movies and Books to choose from.     I am not here for games , what I am and what I am into is not game it is who I am and what I am ....   and only deal with serious people who are in or intersted in the lifestyle . also if your Dom shopping please do not contact me in form of fashion .  

4/11/2012 2:30:21 PM: I been reading alot profiles thats what I mainly do here read .   But I seen alot subs/slaves  do alot crying   example a few have mention that the Dom that they just meet didn't turn out to be what they expected . If you don't talk to your Dom or if you have  this mythical image of what you believe a Dom is then your Doomed to fail . There difference between what a Dom is then the dream world your living in your mind . A Dom will not act the way you want them to act and trying to match Brad Pitt to image of Dom will not happen . my Best Subs in the past weren't the ones that were what we can say 'model' images. the best were the ones who were able to learn , wanting to learn and did learn and more important  'talked '. tagging or getting collared in day or week or month will lead to failure , trying to impress the chatroom will lead to your failure , attending alocal group and trying to impress them will lead to your failure . First find it what it is your seeking and talk , then take it from there trying to impress others around you will not lead you to road of happiness .   if you don't match a person yet there picture changes your mind your doomed . trying to with $ you be doomed .   there two biggest mistakes you'll ever make in your search .