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DakaDom
Male Dominant, 68, Portland, Oregon 
DakaDom

If you are a woman who craves a loving, intimate Ds relationship, deep connection AND erotic bliss through mild to intense BDSM...welcome! I seek a long term, mythically romantic, loving, committed Ds-BDSM relationship with an intelligent, sophisticated, soulful, educated, sexy, emotionally-mature submissive. I am intelligent, skilled, professional, playful, sexy, tall, Dominant, nasty, dark-edged, compassionate, spiritual, soulful, tender and masculine.

I am, 68, physically active and HWP. I seek the same. I have nearly 2 decades of real time experience in the private and public scene. I am skilled in the typical BDSM arts from rope to single-tail to psychological subjugation.

I am open to suitable casual or FWB play partners and mentorinig/training sincere submissives while I search for my long-term partner. In relationship or play I combine the tender, noble side of Ds with a very dark-edged BDSM intensity. On the Ds side, and in everyday life, I possess old-school masculine ways. I am a gentlemen, compassionate, offer clear communication, integrity, leadership, vision et al.



I enjoy romantic exchanges with my partner, holding hands, snuggling close. I seek the deep connection and intimacy of a loving, mutually pleasurable relationship.

I love adventuring in the world with my partner at my side, be she submissive or slave. This can range from camping in the wilds, attending a sexuality or Kink conference, to big city culture. I follow my own personal practices to stay present, mindful, embodied and conscious in my breath. I regularly practice my own style of yoga and attend ecstatic dance. I have a deep, ever inquiring intellect and a highly creative and passionate soul. I am accomplished in all those regards. I am complex. I want be met in these realms of the mind and soul by a skilled listener naturally fascinated by and encouraging of my life mission. I seek one with a deep soul herself. I seek my muse. ...see more on my mission below. I enjoy being served in thoughtful and sweet ways by my submissive. I enjoy protocol and ritual, but establish different protocols in general from low to high to accommodate day to day realities and responsibilities. Held within the loving, intimate Ds aspect of our relationship is where the BDSM aspect can be consciously, consensually expressed. Here, the interactions could include psychological and physical torment, subjugation, sexual power-exchange, and sensual to intense erotic sensation, or put another way... If you crave to be made to dress like a whore, treated like property, used like a filthy, perverse, nasty, dark-edged cunt, be a verbally and physically degraded pain slut, cock-pig, cum-whore, while driven to mind shattering orgasmic bliss, step to the front of the line!



I enjoy both primal and refined predatorprey dynamics. For me Ds-BDSM is a dance like an intense tango. I lead you follow, but we dance as one.

Beforehand clear inquiry would be undertaken to identify any language boundaries you may need around key areas such as intelligence, body image, worthiness, femininity, humanity, race, religion or other areas that might be important to have an initial or permanent boundary.



Everyones edges are different and I will respect and honor your negotiated boundaries. And again to be clear, this refers to what takes place in a BDSM scene, not in our day to day relationship. In that regard you are my precious possession, companion, co-adventurer, friend, muse and soulmate. I am a hedonistic pleasure-seeker. I enjoy quality healthy food, the arts, drink wine regularly or whiskey occasionally. I happily partake in marijuana on a regular basis, and have done so since my teens. I know someday it will lead to my ruin someday - but I am still waiting - lol!

I do not take preion pharmaceuticals of any kind.



I am publicly active in the lifestyle in several dimensions.



It is imperative that any partner, friend or associate can handle the heat of being connected to someone active in the public eye in advocating for sexual freedom, tolerance and inclusion of Fetisshexuality as healthy, normal sexual lifestyle.



As an Author



Decoding Your KinkGuide to Explore and Share Your Wildest Sexual Desires



Visionary...Groundbreaking...Deeply Philosophical...Cutting Edge...Worth its weight in Diamonds...Masterful...Outstanding ...Compelling...Written from the Heart...A Must Read



These are some of the early exclamations from sex positive psychologists, therapists and Kink sex educators about Decoding Your Kink.



Decoding Your Kink, available on Amazon offers ground-breaking insight and tools for cultivating honest expression, profound trust, and resolving old shame, trauma and fear about ones authentic sexual expression. It offers tips for people to find their own personal pathways to share the deep intimacies and mind shattering orgasmic states offered by conscious expression of their most taboo yearnings.



The book conveys what I have learned about Conscious Kink and Ds-BDSM sexuality over the last 15 years as a Fetish-positive therapist, researcher and public advocate. It includes reporting and case studies from the 100s of singles and couples Ive supported, to come to terms with and understand their sexual desires. I share hard earned insights from my personal journey into the Kink lifestyle as well.



As an Adult Toy Designer...



The Tetruss 3 in 1 portable dungeon, shibari suspension rig sex swing. The Tetruss is lightweight, portable, and free-standing. See the full galleries and info at the website.



As a Kink Positive Therapist



Galen Fous MTP - Fetish Sex Educator, Psychotherapist, Sex Researcher.



For over 20 years I have offered professional support for those seeking to untangle their authentic sexual desires for Fetish, Kink, Ds, or BDSM from the cultural shame, fear, morality or parental and inner self judgments that may interfere with or inhibit the full and joyous expression of that authentic desire. I work with singles and couples in my private practice in Portland or via Skype or phone, and conduct workshops and present at national sexuality or fetish conferences on sexual authenticity.



I create graduate levels courses for psychologists, therapists and councilors on the Psychology of Kink and working with Kink-oriented clients. These are available on Sexology University, Kink Knowledgeable , Modern Sex-Therapy Institute.



My Style of Ds-BDSM



I view this lifestyle in two distinct dimensions.The Ds aspect, therelationship side, and the BDSM aspect, the eroticsexual side.



The Ds aspect involves the consciously polarized day to day or moment tomoment interaction between the Dominant and the submissive.

Its essence is noble and mythicromantic. The Dom can express the King orQueen archetype - giver of blessings, bearer of joy, the wise sage elder,set the vision, guide and teach, keep order, set clear agreements andboundaries etc.



The submissive can fully embrace devotion, service,surrender, attentiveness, nurturing energy.

 

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