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 Byrdie
Hetero Female Switch, 56, Seattle, Washington 
Byrdie

The most intriguing profile I ever read had the statement:

 

Unless I'm wearing your collar, don't call me 'daddy'.

 

Several concepts clicked for me upon reading that.

 

There are discussion groups on another site called "daddies who aren't really "in charge": the other side of the coin" and "Daddyslaves for daughters". There are collars that literally just say "Daddy" on them.

 

Ever seen a Canadian zom-rom-com called Fido? Remember the end? "C'mon, Daddy."

 

I did an experiment on a kinky social networking site and ran a search on "sub daddy". There were a fair amount of "Sub4Daddy" or "Daddy4Sub" accounts, but also a significant number of "SubDaddy" or "DaddySub" profiles - people who both identified as submissives and daddies. 

 

Yes. I want a somewhat switchy play relationship with a Domme/sub power exchange. My ideal man would be my submissive daddy, and I'd be his dominant girl. We'd both wear each other's collars. He'd wear panties and I'd sit on his lap. There'd be primal play, wrestling around, learning, and exploring. 

 

I’m not against protectiveness, strength, butchness, or anything else. I’m actually a fan, so long as it’s under my control. Yes, I think that an obedient, leashed monster will do just fine.


 

I'm looking for submissive or switch men within 7 years of my own age (49 - 62) who are Greater Seattle / Puget Sound residents, and are available for a publicly recognized relationship.  

Before I even meet someone who is local to Seattle, I get asked what I will do with them. I am a literal-minded person and I honestly don't know: each person, and each dynamic is different.

Do you have a chastity device? I'd love to talk to you about that at a local munch - while you're wearing it. How do you feel about being touched on the first meeting, in public? On which parts of you, and how firmly?

Do you mind being called 'boy'? Being called 'cute'? I hope so, because I'm likely to do it anyway.

Local submissive daddies who like wearing collars can move to the front of the line.

I’m fully vaccinated, complete with three boosters.

 
aaaah! Last night i attended a lovely play party, got foot rubs from two different men, snack and beverage fetch service from and the chance to top the other. The evening ended with an amusing gauntlet and a nice after-dinner. I needed that.

Yoinks ago I was exchanging DMs online with a local guy who was into chastity, but who asked me if I had a chastity device to lock him in. I've spent enough time on chastity forums to know not to buy some random one without doing measurements, so ... NO. It recently occurred to me that Oxballs makes fairly imposing cock-rings, so I did some research and found that they also make 'full cover chastity' in silicone. So now I have a stand-by chastity device for early play. And it's hot pink! YAY!

Today I learned: red crown in a yellow circle: female dominants ying/yang symbol: female and transgender switches a black whip with pink marks: female and transgender submissives triskele symbol: male switches, submissives and dominants nothing: couples   I am not sure of what these little symbols near usernames on profiles are for other than being cutesy, but at least I have amused myself briefly. 

Enjoying my first visit to NYC, but wow: resting between adventures is crucial for my poor feet. yeow. Broadway show tonight!

I've gotten love-bombed by two different local people this year. I didn't recognize it the first time and paid for it. I did recognize it this time during a break in online conversation, and I'm glad: I really got to explore what the flags were, how I reacted to them at the time, and how I felt when I realized what I was experiencing. It seems to work. After all, who doesn't like praise? But when it's praise for stuff that shouldn't be that big of deal from someone who is not disclosing ... anything about themselves, that's a red flag.

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