Self



Sexuality causes its own pain



Im single, live alone and have way too many pets. I havent subbed to anyone for many years. I have found that i dont enjoy playing for plays sake. For me, its about power exchange. To lose myself in a Dominant requires a level of trust that wont happen for me with a session or three.



Sometimes i can be found here often, sometimes i can go missing for months from these type of pages. Regularly i just pretend im not submissive to save myself any further disappointment.



My previous experience and training has led me to believe that submission is a lifestyle choice. When i sub, its not just for session time. My submission is part of who i am with you. I can come across as strong and independent... and while that is true, its not really the truth of where i would prefer to be.

My vulnerability creates walls, my lack of trust brings forth cynicism, my desire leaves hope.



Im intelligent, tertiary trained in communication and some psychology. I can hold a conversation, at least in some part, on a huge variety of subjects. I happily ask questions when i dont understand.





Who are You?



Intelligent, with an ability to converse.

Experienced, with an interest in the psychological aspects of Ds.

A Man. Im hetero.

A Man who is naturally Dominant. A man who understands why he does what he does to a girl because he knows what he is trying to achieve.









With luck, ill get to meet you.