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Mastersang3l
Hetero Female Switch, 53, MarshallCalloway, Kentucky US 
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 MarshallCalloway

 Kentucky

 5' 6"

 53

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 10/23/21

Happily collared.

I am a very complex person, there are many facets to me...as I am sure there are many facets to You! All I ask for is the truth...OK, so let me lay this out one more time...I am BBW, I am submissive, scratch that...I have learned that I have a very sadistic side that must be fed...I also have a mind...do not expect me to roll over and lick your ass just because you say you are dominant. Do not tell me you are OK with my appearance and then demand I change something about me...been there and not going to happen...



I am currently seeking a bi-sexual (preferably) male submissive, or a bi-sexual switch male...drop me a line and we can see where it will go and what might transpire. What follows may offend some, but if it does it is probably because you see yourself in the meanderings of my mind...



I have tried, and will not try again, being with a married Dominant. First off, if you are married you cannot give me what I seek the most, commitment! Secondly, if you are already cheating on one you will eventually cheat on me...If you are married or in any kind of committed relationship, please keep on going...That being sad, I am open to poly but only in a male scenario. I am not bi-sexual, have tried it and it is not my thing as further explained.



I have tried, and will not do it again, being with a woman (with her as the second until she whined to Master that she wouldnt be second, see the journal for just a fraction of the BS she put me through to get her way to be his one and only...) and it is not something I will ever do again, even just for theoccasionalthreesome someone might want. Not going to happen in this lifetime, ever again! I am not, and never really was, bi-curious nor am I bi-sexual. I do not play with women as either sub, slave, or Domme...so do not ask.



I DO NOT play with anyone who is more than 10 years younger than me! I am sorry, you can say that you have a lifetime of experience but I still feel that is too young for me to be comfortable, and all these 20 something and younger? They havent lived life long enough to know what this is really about! To them it seems to be a game, a way to have fun, kinky sex with as many partners as they can...this is anything but a game to me.



What I want out of this...I want a Dominant, switch, or submissive male who can make a real commitment to a life-long relationship that involves both vanilla and BDSM. I want someone who eventually would like to build a real and lasting relationship. That means 247357! I enjoy being able to take care of someone full time and I miss it. I was raised in a 50s type household where the mans word was law and the woman took care of his needs inside the house. I miss the little things...curling up on the couch after dinner and watching TV or talking. Having a person around who enjoys a good, home cooked meal and shows his appreciation. Someone who values honesty in everything he does and says. Say what you mean and mean what you say...words are wind and like the wind they disappear and cannot be called back once loosed upon another persons soul. If we discuss something and you agree with me 100, I feel I have the right to accept that it will be considered a limit that will not be crossed.



Lie to me once, I will be gone. I do not lie and I will not abide a liar in any shape, , or fashion. If you are asked a direct question, answer it honestly. As long as an omission does not affect us or our relationship, I can deal with it when it comes to light as long as you are honest at that juncture.



I do not appreciate being told that you want to start a relationship with me and then you seem to disappear for several days, only to reappear when it is convenient for you (that smacks of you hiding something, maybe a wife, see above). If you have a few minutes to get on-line to check e-mail, you have a few minutes to drop a quick line to say that your day has been busy or whatever and let me know that you are still alive and breathing. The beauty of CM is it tells when you were last on...so do not piss on me repeatedly and tell me it is raining. If you do not want a relationship with me, just say so...simple! I have been rejected before, it is not going to kill me...



As a very dear to me couple who live this lifestyle says, BDSM is based on the THRILL concept. Trust, Honesty, Respect, Integrity, Loyalty, and Love...without any one of these concepts, the relationship is doomed to fail.



I do not want a long-distance relationship, or on-line only relationship. If you are not within the US, do not bother contacting me. If you are not able to come meet, do not bother contacting me. I do not do cyber chat, I do not do phone sex, I do not play on-line games. Either be in a position to be physically present in the same room with me or do not waste my time.



OK, so something else. I am relatively intelligent. I have three degrees in Health Care Management, and was working on my fourth in cyber security when I had issues that made being in class impossible. Please have some intelligence and respect mine. I will not drop on my knees and call you Sir or any other word giving you power over me until after we have met, talked, and seen where the chemistry is. Respect is not something demanded, like trust, it is earned. Because I am submissive does not mean I am, or will ever be, your door mat.



Generated mail will be disregarded...by that, I mean these messages I have gotten in the past that seem to be generic, bulk sending. Ive gotten a few from submissive males, and laughably from 20something Dommes, telling me they will be in my area and either cannot wait to fall at my feet or have me at their feet, conversely...Also, please try to be a little more creative than just hi...what about my profile intrigued you? What do you see that maybe we have in common to build something on?





More to come, this, like me, is a work in process...


7/16/2017 2:47:07 PM: Here we go again...OK, for all you sissy-sub boi's out there. Don't go looking at all the porn videos and get caught up in the frenzy of that fantasy and expect a Domme or switch female to fulfill those fantasies for you on the first meeting. If you are a slut, want to be a slut, fine...don't message saying you want to belong to someone. Sluts are in it for the instant gratification, not to build a relationship that explores all the fun things that can make those fantasies a Safe reality. This is not 50 Shades of anything, this is not porn, it is a life choice. You choose to give control of your life, your sex, your body, and hopefully your soul to a partner....So tired of the players and the feeding frenzy both sexes work their selves into trying to make a porn fantasy their life. Any Dom/me or sub/slave who is out just to have sex usually only wants that instant satisfaction and doesn't care about their own safety, much less anyone else. Grow up! 4/21/2017 6:09:33 PM: So, I read this tonight from a profile while conversing with an old friend. I asked to reprint from his page but I am putting the original persons name in with this comment. This is so true. I have walls upon walls. And sometimes I make the mistake of letting someone in a bit too soon only to find that everything was a lie. One of my favorite songs is Broken by Seether and Amy Lee (Evanescence) and this touches on that...by Torturedsoul38                     How to love a broken girl.  How many would benefit from an instruction book for that? Its easy to love the carefree girls, the 'normal' girls, the confident girls next door, but what about the broken girls? The girls with fortresses around their heart and shields in their eyes? The girls whose souls have aged beyond their earthly years? The girls with bodies and minds that have survived wars which would break the strongest of men? Sometimes these girls should come with a warning label. The warning pendulum swings both ways. This warning  is not only for how you must treat her but for all the ways she will ruin you. 1. You cannot love her gently. She does not realize she deserves to be loved. You must love her with a force that can crush mountains. You must burn her soul so hot with your love that doubt melts away. Your love must be unconditional and you must show her on her very worst days. 2. She doesn't know shes beautiful.  She can get compliments all day and she wont believe it. There is a demon on her shoulder whispering that its not true. It takes a dozen compliments to erase one hurtful torment from her past. Shower her with compliments, be her cheerleader, until your words are her heartbeat instead of her doubts. 3. Chase her. I know we often have the attitude of not chasing anyone. I know it is said to be weak if we chase someone who walks away, but we need to see you are weak for us. Sometimes a broken girl needs to see how much you need her. She needs to.see that vulnerability in your eyes to feel OK. We need you to need us. 4. She needs routine.  Broken girls over analyze everything.  They notice everything, too. Did you stop asking her for pictures after some time passes? Did you stop using a pet name? Every broken pattern to us means the end of the only thing we have ever wanted and it terrifies us. 5. Smother us with affection. Touch us. Kiss us. Touch us some more. Broken girls have not experienced enough positive affection in their life. We will absorb every ounce as a person dying of thirst demands water. You cannot shower us with enough of a good touch. 6. Be honest and keep promises. Broken girls have not dared to dream much. Every vow made to us has been broken. Every promise has been a lie. We would rather you never let a promise escape your lips than have you utter false ones. 7. Prepare to drown. If we let you inside our chaotic soul, you will be immersed in a madness you will not understand. We sometimes walk the balance beam of insanity and sometimes we fall. The biggest warning we should have is this.. if we love you, it is forever. We will love you with a loyalty that will amaze you. We will be committed and our heart will beat your name. While we are still broken we will try to devour all of your pain. We will be perceptive to your wounds and eager to heal your soul. If we love you, please be prepared that we will forever stay. 3/19/2017 9:14:20 PM: So, I have finally, after several years, let shit for brains go once and for all. Looking back over my journal entries, I know I have said it several times but this time I've changed my phone number, blocked his email address, and blocked him on Skype. So, short of him showing up on my doorstep, which I know he doesn't have the balls to do, he will never darken my life with his lies and bullshit again. Now, to get the taste of his shit out of my mouth and get over the anger and hurt I let him cause in me. Seven years of his back and forth, ghosting and excuses, and out right lies is enough. Not sure I will ever get back into the mindset of being totally submissive, that also has left a bad taste in my mouth from all the cheats and fakes out there in cyberland. Plus, I found that I do have a very deep sadistic streak that I need to feed. Who knows what tomorrow will bring. For now, peace out. Blessed be! Wish I could change my ID on here without completely changing my profile...I am not a slightly tarnished angel... 5/18/2014 3:46:40 PM: Just really sick and tired of the men, not just from this site, who feel that they have to lie to get a woman to be with them...men suck, period! And not in a good way... 2/12/2014 8:48:13 PM: I'm addicted to Every single thing you do I'm dying inside Your sucking me down It makes me feel,I'm gonna drownIt's killing me now All you do is bring me down All this time and all your lies It has been no surprise Now I realize it now How could you cheat on me Then turn your back on me You told me all the lies and hypnotized and I believed How could you cheat on me Then turn your back on me You told me all the lies and hypnotized and I believed I'm coming to know all the secrets that you hold You think I'm a fool and I don't know what you do But I look in your eyes and I finally realize In all this time and all your lies It has been no surprise now I realize and now with all your pride You still can't look me in the eyes and now in all your shame You can't even speak my name I'm addicted to every single thing you doI'm dying inside....
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