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onmyknees867
Pan Male Submissive, 35, York, Pennsylvania US 
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onmyknees867
I am looking for an eventual 247 long term Domsub relationship, I am not looking to be used or to be a part of an abusive relationship

With that being said, what I am looking for is a relationship based on trust, respect and love For me it is more about the mental and emotional bond with the physical aspects of that bond naturally happening I want to be loved, adored, seduced I think Domsub relationships are an evolving dynamic that grows stronger over time As time goes by, more and more control is asserted and the submission of the sub deepens

I consider myself to be naturally submissive I enjoy pleasing others and like following rather than taking the lead I yearn for a strong Dom to help me go down the path of submission and help me be the best person that I can be through submission I am looking for a Dom whose main priorities include making me a better person through submission and one who will be mindful of protecting me and caring for me

I envy the ideology of a stereotypical submissive christian wife lifestyle The typical 1950s house household type of scenario My Dom being the head of household, the leader My role being their support, following their lead, making their dreams mine and dedicating my life to pleasing them.

When I accepted who I really am and started my search for a Dom, I originally limited the search to a Domme. However through my searching I realized its more about the Domsub relationship and person that I seek, not the gender So I have now opened my search to include a Dom I have no experience being with a Man, however I do not see any issue with it As with the right person and relationship, the gender doesnt matter

I am open to being broken down per say and rebuilt in my Doms image. Being stripped of the societal expectations of what a man should be. Being freed of so called Masculinity, allowing me to assume a completely submissive role and live the life that would allow me happiness I would like to eventually get to a point where I am in a fully committed relationship with a Dom, where they control every aspect of my life and where I can feel safe, comfortable and where I am theirs.

I think what a lot of people miss, is there needs to be some sort of relationship, before the kink starts The lifestyle requires a huge amount of respect, understanding and trust I feel rushing into activities or submitting right away is nothing short of dangerous To me, I want to be courted, I want to be seduced Show me youre a strong Dominant person, win over my mind and heart The rest comes after When that type of connection is established, than we can start assuming our roles You can start taking control, little by little and I will start lowering walls and submitting little by little. Its not an instant thing, I dont even think its a finishable thing. Its a lifelong adventure where both are taking more control and giving up more control

When I personally think about it, I dont really see a limit. When you have that ultimate intimate connection, love and trust each other immensely, the possibilities are endless. Being able to anticipate each others needs, being able to follow commands without thinking or questioning them

I dont think a lot of people realize it, but even a lifestyle relationship is an equal relationship Your just taking different roles To me, its a Dominants job to be in control, to lead the relationship, to protect their sub. And its just as much work for the sub, taking care of the Dominants needs, being there for them and anticipating their needs. Supporting them emotionally. Making himself available to them

I think its vital for both to equally fulfill their roles. I think its unrealistic for a Dominant to just expect things and to use the sub with nothing in return. There has to be give and take, both need to be able to find pleasure and happiness in the relationship and the activities. With that being said, it doesnt remove anything. An example would be spankings or floggings. This can be an activity where that the Dominant uses it as a stress reliever for the week, to assert their Dominance over the sub and to gain pleasure out if it. For the sub, this can also be a time of stress relief. The sub can use it as a time to let go, to use it to embrace their submission to their Dominant and gain pleasure out of it just like their Dominant.

Feel free to tell me more about yourself. What you are looking for, how you view the lifestyle. What your expectations are from a sub. How you see daily life in a Domsub relationship.

I am real and am looking for real time. Chatting online for a little to get to know one another is fine, however I am not looking for only online.
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