Hi all, I am a curious fellow... I have been reading erotica based in this lifestyle for years and, though I realize this is a farcry from the real thing, am eager to give it a try.....To date, beyond one or two meet ups that didnt really go anywhere, and a dash of play with friends, my interests have primarily remained online....Erotica sites, cyber, or even yiffing in odder moments.....Now however, I seek something REAL.I have many interests in this lifestyle... It might be simpler to just state my limits as they currently stand. Nothing illegal, Nothing permanent (physically, mentally is my own fault if it happens), and im not interested in toilet play. within these limits. I give shehethey that take an interest free reign. It should be made clear that right now I have no idea what parts of this are the right lifestyle for me...thus right now Im looking to explore, to dive in head first so to speak.....and see what happens.I am a definate Xenophile, Star Trek Green women, the thing from Species, Goth ladies, and Elven nobles, all make for a fine cross-genre example...On a similar note, costumes in general are a big turn on, whether it is something as simple as the classic maid get up to a full authentic Victorian ballgown or even a cosplay costume (actually appealing to my geek side is the fast track to my heart).



On that point, I should warn I am something of a geek. My hobbies include tabletop RPGs, LARPs, and even Boffer LARPs.An odd fetish Ive picked up over the years is mind control..... Controlling someone so entirely is a bit of a power trip or the idea of someone slowly breaking me down, and rebuilding me as they wish are odd fetishs Ill admit, but..yeah....Ive been reading stories from the Erotic Mind Control Archive for the for years and it has left an undeniable mark on my interests........

Hope to hear from you all,Thomas