3/20/2010 8:45:32 PM: I continually see women who tout their education and intelligence in their profiles, but then make grammar and spelling mistakes, and write short sentences with a limited vocabulary that shows a lack of erudition. In contrast, I was a full-time student in universities for 13 years and a professor for many years, but I say only that my education is appropriate for my professional career in scholarly research.

6/9/2009 6:22:33 PM: Now I have something in common with many women here: I have been the recipient of dishonesty by men. On 18 May and 7 June 2009 I was contacted by two different 'women' who wanted to chat, but it became obvious that they were men who were pretending to be women.

5/25/2008 7:35:28 PM: I have been in collarme since June 2007. I frequently read women's profiles that complain about men who chat, seem compatible, and then suddenly disappear without explanation. I have experienced women who did this to me, so it is not something that only men do to women. I believe the explanation is that during erotic chats, we reveal erotic fantasies and accept unconventional activities. Then when we are offline and away from the erotic passion of an intense chat, our sense of concern for our safety, dignity, etc. takes over and we become afraid of meeting in real life. The remedy would seem to be to begin with meetings in restaurants and on a subsequent date begin erotic play, slowly introducing new activities. Of course, this slow seduction only works for local partners.