12/17/2017 3:39:44 PM: Questions...conversations.Interesting this go around, how many guys don't ask a question to keep the conversation going. Even a simple 'and you?' works wonders. It is very telling what statements and questions a Dom/Master/Guy emails. I won't give away secrets, but what D/M/G writes tells me what type of relationship they are looking for.I am not going to continually ask questions to keep the conversation going, I need to know you are interested.So, after the initial hellos, just a simple 'and you' may help you find what you seek.

9/7/2017 2:23:49 PM: Hurricane Irma...times like this are when I wish I had someone to share life with...

1/18/2015 9:33:04 AM: 'Could You Just Listen?' 'When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me 'why' I shouldn't feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problems, you have failed me, strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen; not talk, nor do--just hear me. I can do for myself--I'm not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering, but not helpless. When you do something for me, that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and weakness. But when you accept as a simple fact that I do feel what I feel, no matter how irrational, then I quit trying to convince you and can get about the business of understanding what's behind this irrational feeling. When that's clear, the answers are obvious and I don't need advice. Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what is behind them. Perhaps that is why prayer works sometimes for some people; because God is mute, and doesn't give advice to try to 'fix' things. He/She just listens, and lets you work it out for yourself. So please listen, and just hear me. And if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn, and I'll listen to you.'Anonymous

1/1/2015 5:57:39 AM: Wishing everyone a fabulous year filled with health, wealth and fantastic play! Happy New Year to all!

12/14/2014 5:10:42 PM: How Grimly stole Christmas Adapted from the Grinch who stole Christmas.                               Every Dom, every subbie all like Christmas a lot… But Grimly,Who lived in the remote north, Did NOT! Grimly hated Christmas! The whole Christmas season! Now, please don’t ask why. No one quite knows the reason. It could be his head wasn’t screwed on just right, It could be, perhaps, that his leathers were too tight. But I think that the most likely reason to explain all of that, May have been that his subbie was just too much of a brat. Whatever the reason, His clothes or his girl, He stood there on Christmas Eve, hating the world, Staring down from his dungeon with a sour, Grimly frown, He eyed up his girl in her long latex gown. For he knew she was a good girl down beneath, Though she would deny it, and lie through her teeth: “I wont obey you!” she snarled with a sneer, “Even though its Christmas! I have no fear!” Then he growled, with his Grimly fingers nervously drumming, “behave or I’ll stop YOU and Christmas from coming!” For Tomorrow, he knew, what lie in his sack, A chastity belt that would tie up her cunt and her crack! And the she would scream and beg and she’d plead! She’d gladly allow him to drag her around on a lead! She would want to please him and to obey, In return for him granting orgasm and play!     And the more Grimly thought of this devious plan, The more he thought, “I must do what I can!” “Why, for three years I’ve put up with it now!” ”This Christmas I’ll have a good girl! But HOW?” Then he got an idea! A deviousl idea! Grimly GOT A deviously, sadistic IDEA!” I know just what to do!” The Grim laughed in his throat. And he pulled on a Santy Claus hat and a coat. And he chuckled, and clucked, “What a great Grimly trick!” “With this coat and this hat, I look just like Saint Nick!” “All I need is a reindeer…” Grimly looked around. But, since reindeer are scarce, there was none to be found. Did that stop the old Grimly? No! The Grim simply said, “If I can’t find a reindeer, she’ll be one instead!” So he dressed his girl up in her pony gear, With her head harness tied tight round her ears. THEN He put on her antlers she was bound nice and tight , Grim proclaimed “ you’ll be a good girl tonight!’. Then Grimly said, “Giddap!” And she pranced around, As he looked at his girl, all nicely bound. He knew that in bondage she gets quite spacy, Quite turned on, horny and rather quite racy! “I‘ll have you where I Want” he proclaimed with a shout “I will do what I can to knock this brattiness out!”     “Oh yes my girl,” the old Grimly Claus hissed, As he took out her bit gag and gave her a kiss. She was spacy and floating away somewhere, Forgetting she was dangerously in his lair. And in his control and under his power, He would make her submit and grovel and cower. He undid her harness and said with a grin, ‘Here’s my Christmas bondage sack, I’m putting you in!’’ And then in the morning, I’ll have the best present ever!” ”A spacy girl in bondage who wants to endeavor, To obey me and please me and do what she can, To make me the happiest dominant man!” He laid her down in his Christmas sack, Making sure the restraints were tight, he didn’t like slack. Why, that Grimly even wired her ass and her pussy, He liked her pain to be fancy, in that way he’s fussy! “And NOW!” grinned the Grimly, “I will start the transformation!” ”Tomorrow you’ll be the best sub in the nation!” And he turned on the juice and turned up the power, As the clocked ticked round to the midnight hour. She screamed, she groaned and she begged: ”Please Master, I’ll be good, I’ll be good instead, “I’ll change my ways, I’ll be a good girl, This Christmas please I’ll give you the world”   “I can't stop Christmas coming, but I can control you, And if you’re honest you do love that too!” ”You like to feel helpless and under my spell, Even though to you I’m the bastard from hell!” “If you want to orgasm then beg me now!” ”Please master’ she begged ‘please, please oooh oww!” ’I want to know that I’ll get what I want’ Grimly said, ”When I open my sack and let you into my bed, As its Christmas, I’ll be nice and you may cum As I have to admit, with you I have fun!” ’But’ Grimly said ‘you have to be good from now on’’ or tomorrow till next Christmas, the belt I will don!” ’Oh no please Master, don't lock me in that!” “it’s really uncomfortable and makes me look fat!” Grimly grinned and he said ‘well that is up to you, be good and it’ll still be easy to go to the loo!” “But that is the threat,” grinned Grimly, “that you have to hear!” That is what’ll happen if you’re not good this year!” ’Yes master’ she said ‘I promise this now, I’ll do what you want, but please tell me how, You’ve managed to cast this spell over me, I really am confused over how this could be!” ”Well my dear its simple, I want you to behave and enjoy your fantasy of being my SLAVE!”   ~Author Unknown~