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thumper
| Male Dominant, 51, Gates, New York
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Dominant divorced male looking for a female sub/slave (24/7) to train and for play. Possible long term, and must be d/d free. I'm intelligent, witty, strict, caring, clean, d/d free and desires to stay that way. I am looking for a female submissive to grow together in the lifestyle. I expect my submissive to be loyal, respectful, femmine and well kept. Your body type must be height weight proportionate, curves is ok.� If you have no or limited experience, that is ok. I would prefer to train you My way. Just be willing in your heart to learn and be open minded.
I expect a lot, but I also give a lot. I'm a Master that knows how to treat his lady, and I highly respect your "gift" of submission and trust. I can also provide the "vanilla" in your life that you may want in addition as a submissive. I'm a person that lives life to the fullest, I work and play hard. Some of my interest include some sports, the outdoors, fireplaces, intellectual discourse, good conversation, music, being around water, romantic walks on a chilly evening with a brandy to warm up after. I will reply only to those who send a picture. I am very real and geniune, and not a game player. I expect you to be the same. Please read my journal entries before contacting Me. Thank you for checking me out. If you want to know more, please feel free to ask. I would love to discuss life style issues with you.
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Finally free from the vanilla bonds that hinderd my lifestyle freedom....
TO ANYONE WHO BLOCKED ME OR GHOSTED ME
Thank you.
When a person ghosts or blocks me I think it says more about them than it does about me.
When someone ghosts or blocks me I say a little prayer. Well, that's not the first thing I do. The first thing I do is to probably to say a few little curse words --- just a few of my favorites --- and then I say a little prayer. I say the prayer because I am thankful that I dodged a bullet.
I think that people who ghost or block others are weak and cowardly. They don't have the strength of character, integrity, honesty, or courage that I want, in fact, require in anyone that I am associated with whether it be a friend, a submissive, a colleague, or anyone else. They are doing me a favor by ghosting or blocking me because I am better off without them.
I need to update my profile here, long overdue. My profile that is currently posted, is one that was written when I first join CS.
Since then, through the years of properly being mentored, learning, and maturing in the lifestyle, my outlook and perspective on the lifestyle has changed greatly.
Over the years, I have learned that the lifestyle has much more to offer than just kinky, hurtful play and sex. People who have that mentality, do not really take time to appreciate and cherish the finer aspaspects of having a submissive or slave that puts herself out there just to please others.
Although my current profile states what I'm looking for, doesn't really mean that I have the improper attitude. My attitude has greatly changed, and if you take the time to learn more about me or others that inquire into your profile, you might find a hidden jewel in this rubbish heap on this site.
I, as a Master, is not into this lifestyle for the kinky sex, but for it to greatly enhance the relationship, to make it strong, safe, to enhance growth in each other, make each other grow and be fulfilled. Most importantly, I desire and will make my submissive or slave feel appreciated and cherished in everything she does, and to give her that balance of the vanilla and lifestyle is important. There are other aspaspects that go along with the relationship that are just as important as well.
This might give the impression that I'm not a strict Master or Dominate, for I can be strict, but fair, and generous as well. I'm a laid back easy type of guy, but I'm observant and knows whats going on. I'm not a pushover by any means.
Whatever you do, don't judge a book by its cover.... you might lose out on a jewel!
How do you determine 'mutual interest' if there is no dialogue to begin with? You may or may not agree with everyones likes, dislikes, and I don't expect everyone to agree with mine. But with some form of dialogue, it should be determined if there is mutual interest? What ever happened to the meaning of compromise? Isn't that one of the many important aspaspects of any relationship, including living the lifestyle?
I'm disappointed in people being rude on here, realized that there are submissives and slaves that are extremely rude and disrespectful, even after sending a polite inquiry. Then, to get a response asking thoughts on my political beliefs, and then not being able to respond quickly, I get called nasty political names. After writing a response explaining my position, and explaining how I feel, I'm blocked. A true sign of being a coward and low life on this site.
There have been many wonderful conversations with Transgendered individuals, and I come to respect them more than some of the submissves or slaves that I've come to know on here.
It is no ones business to know how I feel in regards to political issues, or how I feel about the election results, past or current presidents. Its none of my business to know how you feel in this regard, unless you want to freely discuss it, but don't get upset or angry if they don't align with you.
In my opinion, I feel that politics and religion should not belong in a lifestyle relationship. I welcome to hear your opinion.
Efforts should be put into establishing and developing a lifestyle relationship, than worrying, or stressing out about political bull shit.
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