Profile update November 8th 2021:

I have opted to include more ination in my profile to help with the vetting process as my sincerity and desire to find a worthy submissive is sincere and I'd rather not waste my time nor your time if there are obvious deal breakers.

I have been kinky since before I can recall... I spanked my first girlfriend at age 15 and had kinky desires to tie up girls and spank them since I witnessed a neighborhood girl get her ass thoroughly tanned at age 12.

From that point forward bdsm has been a burning desire I tried to neglect in my first marriage, but both her and I realized that bdsm isn't something I can simply "opt out" of nor is it something I can deny. When we divorced, it only solidified my desire to find a woman that enjoys romantic dinners, cuddles, and a boyfriend that genuinely cares about her, her life, her feelings and emotions... that needs to have a Sir that can also be her loving and caring boyfriend... but also understands that I lead the ship. She will be my first mate, but ultimately my decision is final although her opinion and perspective may have great influence on that decision.

likewise, she needs to enjoy being spanked... she needs to love to be dominated... bondage and sensory play are not just fun, but also requirements. She needs to know that I enjoy being a "loving sadist" because I will use toys, implements, bondage benches, fucking machines, vibratory, dildos, clamps and canes, crops and paddles, and a wide range of other fun and devious toys. even though I will paint her naked flesh all shades of colors, and force her to cum over and over again... even though she will submit and suffer for my pleasure... she will also love every minute of it because afterwards... I will tell her what a good girl she was for suffering for me, and I'll provide all kinds of loving and supportive aftercare; and, when the night finally closes she will fall asleep in my loving embrace and be happy and content that she finally found a Sir that is able to use and abuse her the way she always fantasized, but also love and protect her... provide for her... and be her foundation.

So if this ballad of pleasure and pain, love and submission, and sadistic masochistic pleasures resonates with you, send me a message so we can start the dark dance of the heart and possible end with the slow dance of pleasure and pain that is fulfilled and happy bdsm life. 

-Dracko