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AbleHanded
| Hetero Male, 58, Seattle, Washington
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Seriously dominant, and mature emotionally and experientially. Erudite, confident, cultured, articulate, bon vivant. (Modest, too.) Possessed of a firm will and penchant for perseverance.
Single (divorced 8 years) and enjoying all of lifes joys. Always learning, growing, active, vital, and seeking greater inner satisfaction, happiness and serenity of my spirit. I care about the dangerous future of our country and planet. I hold to the precept that not being able to do everything doesnt excuse you from doing something.
Thats a decent one paragraph summary of my personality.
Im seeking a submissive woman for a durable relationship in which discipline, consensual control, sensation play, and exploration of our other mutual BDSM desires is a vital part, If you love s p a n king, then were off to a good match.
I enjoy a girl whos feisty, intelligent, articulate, and spirited - somewhat of a challenge. I delight in combining strictness and firmness with caring and patience nothing pleases me more than a girl who feels at her most protected, cared for, and feminine when shes over my knee, and knowing its just the beginning.
If you have a bit of an Electra complex, thats a plus for both of us.
My desired goal is a long-term relationship monogamous sexually, but maybe with some room for trusted non-sexual outside play. Be single and unencumbered. (I am.) Its okay if youre dating, but you need to be available. I dont want to start off with complications or drama. I want a relationship that is the right thing done the right way from the start.
I genuinely like enjoy a womans company, well beyond the physical part. Its a matter of the mental connection going hand in glove with physical attraction, and knowing what it means to build a really deep trust. I want to lead you - discipline and dominate you - as you need it to have serenity, confidence, and contentedness in the rest of your life. I can edge toward physical sadism (not extreme), but never psychological hurt. Good grammar and spelling count with me, as does your life outside kink.
I am seeking a real life relationship, so if youre online only, thats not interesting for me. That said, Im certainly not rushing into anything, and Id only meet someone after a sufficient time online to feel trust, safety, consent, and mutual interest. In that sense, please be as serious about this as I am.
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6/15/2017 12:13:05 PM: I wish that the ladies on this site (I'm only interested in submissive or 'bottom-heavy' [not in a physical but a D/s sense] switch females) wouldn't omit their interests. We all have our specific preferences in D/s and BDSM; kink compatibility is important. It's also nice to know other interests, but less so. I feel that I'm writing blind when I don't know what a woman needs and craves (independent concepts). I know it can feel like a catalogue, so also recognize that hitting the highlights is better than a longer list. Alternatively, if you don't like a canned questionnaire, then write it in your profile. I want to know if I'll interest you (and vice versa), in order to write a message of reasonable and articulate substance.
12/9/2012 9:51:51 PM: The future may well hold for me in store A return of happiness, forlorn hope? Perhaps among the crowd one soul ignored Would understand my soul and would respond?
11/3/2012 11:37:52 AM: I'm feeling more positive about this site in the last two weeks.
3/19/2012 6:39:29 PM: I'm becoming convinced it's a losing battle to expect people here to recognize that DOMINATE is the verb, and DOMINANT the adjective. There is no such thing as a 'dominate man' only a 'dominant man.'
8/14/2010 5:43:03 PM: A play partner recently described me as 'intense but sweet.' I liked that and I think it fits me just right.
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