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Hetero Male Submissive, 43, Maldon, United Kingdom 

a talented hospitality trained submissive who can cater for every desire and wish from his superior .


loyal and honest submissive seeking new adventures on his life bdsm journey, wish to be dominated by a strong superior , likes to be controled and confined, be a maid , a servant to his dominant pleasure and desires , she is his world and only focus 


 deeply goal to earn the right to be an alpha property, be owned and cherished for his service , wear his collar and padlock with pride , pround to be a submissive and gentleman to boot.


discovering still No mercy as I'm bound tightly. No escape!!!


Emotionless in a state of glory being used for my intended purpose.


reaching subspace Filled with painful pleasure to the brink of amber


I'm submissive!!! I wish your dominance and fear that is instilled and administered to my mind body and soul.


I need your control. I yearn to be dominated. I long for your verbal commands


I beg for.more.and to be spanked and played with but this is only a reward


Constantly humiliated no matter the time put in his place collared and chained my superior pet


yet he knows his own worth and strength . to be loyal to serve and be devoted to his superior whatever


To be used for their sole pleasure of dominating this slave


I love this lifestyle i live to endure. There's no better way to put this, other than I enjoy the moments I'm used for pleasure and.pain


. At least I wish I'm wanted and needed by a dominant to worship, sevre and more

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Dominant Female, 24
 Las Vegas, Nevada
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What do you do in your spare time? Last night I watched a couple of documentaries on North Korea, had Chinese food, a long phone conversation, listened to music by an East Indian singer, and browsed Reddit. Tonight I'll be reading an urban fantasy steeped in Celtic folklore, shopping for a gift for a friend, and perusing a newly acquired vintage cookbook dedicated to pumpkin. This weekend it will be cleaning, laundry, reorganizing the kitchen, a walk in a Japanese garden, a trip to the post office, work on a music playlist, and in an ideal world I would also set up a new laptop and start a basic design project, but that probably won't happen.  I'll be touching base with a couple of people by phone. On Saturdays, I typically participate in a local womens group but I've skipped the last few weeks because all they want to talk about lately is disease and death.  If someone is not well and needs support, sure.  But if they're not sick, they want to talk about someone they know who has some disease.  If they don't know anyone who's ill, they want to talk about a friend of a friend or someone they heard about in another state or country or something they read once about someone somewhere who was sick, or some sickness they heard about that existed somewhere at some time.  Like, no.  I'm not that bored. So the theme of this post is, I manage to keep myself entertained, and I'm looking for someone who can do the same.  Curiosity and humor, please.  Also, some social grace.  I fully understand what it is like to be a socially awkward penguin, but I need someone who is capable of polite manners and can be taken out in public.
a safe situation leads to a new experience pt1  written 6/2019 "When you put yourself in a safe situation, little one, you will be able to more fully enjoy subspace." --Sir MJ Sooooo….i had another first!! Those of you keeping score know i've been going to kink events....classes, newbie nights, community nights at dungeons. i'd been to one dungeon a few times recently, for their Friday night class and play party night. But i hadn't played at all, preferring just to take part in the class, socialize and watch some of the play. Until my most recent visit, that is!! As usual, i'd gotten there early to sit in on the program of classes. It was a quiet night there with the classroom only about half full. The class was cool and afterwards i drifted around, got some coffee and chatted with my friend, who is a member there. It wasn't til later, when i was seated by myself at the long table in the patio, when He approached. A quick introduction followed by the question; where is my (male) friend? "He's somewhere around..." i reply, vaguely. i'm a little disappointed as He quickly retreats, i'd seen him in the class and i still feel fairly awkward and like an outsider; it would have been nice to chat with him a while. A while later and my friend has left. i spend some time watching in the main room, just relaxing in a comfy chair and soaking up the good vibes. Eventually nature calls and i get up to use the bathroom in the adjoining side room. As i exit the bathroom, who is there, but him.  
I am a good looking guy with that girl's attitude inside. A girl who wants to be dominated by a big man. I dream of being kept weak and skinny. I am a girly girl and more submissive than I can believe! I love to feel that way while helping you feel like a strong man. Very picky and never met with anyone yet. I do get hit on a lot here and sometimes real life but I want to get owned and collared by the right MAN. Not going to meet a bunch of guys. The strong Grizzly bear of a man will have to impress this gurl. Then I will submit to my superior Sir. I love feeling like a weak little cu%t so to speak. I am impotent making it my sensitive little cl%t , making me even more a weak little cu%t So being kept barefoot and knocked up is the path to my heart. I am Submissive ,weak and docile when I want to be and oh do I ever want to be. I am dainty and delicate boosting and caressing your manly ego and balls at my expense. Silly but it's how I feel. You real men run the world so I can stay barefoot and in the kitchen, ready to drop to my knees! Safe from everyone but you. I am quiet and shy in girl mode. Writing this makes me feel so weak and needy. That's just my vibe when we are together.  Proper girls like me believe you are superior! Not looking for overly serious situation. Unless you take away my rights and freedoms? If I got overwhelmed by your manly dominance I might willingly give up my current freedoms to be your slave wife daughter property. Micro manage this girl with your manly power! Brainwash me with your strong intellect making me more obedient and weaker and thinner from skipping dinner. Also pamper me by carrying me from the kitchen to your bed like I'm a weak little girl. Helps keep me weak. Are you still reading? :) I just admitted quite a lot here. I wish more profiles were as clear as this. So besides being femmy, I am smart and kind.     
I have to admit, I like "the new normal" that is our post-pandemic lives.  Our company embraced working from home and now I am only in the office a day or two each week.  That has enabled me to more fully embrace the female led lifestyle as I am home much more frequently and can take advantage of subhub's willingness to be of service to me.  I used to leave for the day and have a list of chores for him to perform in my absence.  Now, I get to enjoy watching him work.  I thought I had his full submission before, but now that he is subject to almost constant supervision, he has become the servant I always wanted even if before I didn't know it was what I wanted.     To that end, we've made a few changes, upgrades really.  We bought a better, steel chastity cage for him.  He says it is more comfortable and it is much more visually appealing to me than his old plastic CB model.  It's also easier to keep it clean so he is now going longer between releases.   Really, now I only release him when I want to use him.  And he is now in steel cuffs and collar.  He likes those less than the leather ones I used to have him wear, he says they feel more bulky with less give to them and so he feels like they are in the way as he does his chores.  But I like the look so they're here to stay for now.  Plus, he no longer has to take them off to do dishes or shower and so can go longer periods in them.   It's a nice visual.  Him naked except for his steel cage, cuffs and collar, working around the house while I sit in my office.  And having him at my beck and call 24/7 has helped me more fully embrace my life as his domme. And lest anyone misunderstand, his submission to me is still mostly domestic/service-oriented.  This isn't about me using him for sex throughout the day.  He is constantly cleaning, cooking, doing laundry and dishes, fetching me a drink or a snack, and…
It's been a few years since I was involved in a play party that was worthy sharing. I do live the slave life 24/7 and serve Master James and Mistress Tabitha. With that said the basic flogging, domestic service, run of the mill slave life isn't usually something to write about. Especially when you have been owneed for just over nine years.With that said, I have been commanded to share last  nights play with you.For the first time the BDSM group was invited over to play with me in a new way. The group consists of six Master slave couple and our threesome. All were present.Last night the atendees participated in using me for electricity and pain games.I was tied sprerad eagle in the barn. Standing with my wrists up high and wide over my head. The first game was a two litre enema, I was told to hold it for 30  seconds and there wouuld be no punishment for releasing it at that time. But if I failed I had to take a dop of tobasco on my tongue and thern on my clit. Now, I recieve two litre ebnemas often so this shouildn't be an issue. I take the enema, stand in the middle of the barn and four of the guests put magic wands on my mmost sensative areas. My body jerks but I manage to hold on.10 minutes after I complete my task another enema and this time nine volt batteries with exposed wires are used. As the guests spit on my nippels and cunnie to moisten me before I am zapped I know it's going to be hard to acomplish. I lasted 28 seconds. Instantly a drop of Tobasco is applied to my tongue and clit. I am told to swallow.It's a little hot but nothind serious. I do ok.Next I'm told the my punishment will be a drop of Carolina Reaper on my tongue and clit. Again the enema, this time four commerecial tens units are attached to my breasts and labia, but there is one exception, one of the guests puts a tens pad above and below my belly buton. The shock was horrific and I lasted mere seconds. The carolina reaper sauce set everything on fire. It was hell. It took me almos…
Normalize Treading Lightly: Thoughts on Personal Safety in Kink/BDSM In my six-ish years exploring this world, i've had some incredible experiences, and some harrowing ones. And some that seemed incredible at the time but on later reflection, weren't good and i am lucky to have survived in one piece!! i think there are two main things that have saved me from going through even worse/more bad experiences: my natural inclination to not be super trusting/super open with most people diving in to attending events (not just play parties, but a variety of classes, discussion groups & munches as well) As i stick around the events and party circuit, eventually i hear more and more stories of people and places to avoid...at one point last year i began to wonder: "If i stick around long enough in this scene, will i eventually hear something bad about EVERY ONE and EVERY PLACE?" As i reflected on this thought, i couldn't help but think, yes....yes i probably will. You get enough people and enough venues and enough time and SOMEONE is bound to have a bad experience with someone. Sometimes, maybe it's a one-off. Other times i hear from multiple people about crappy things happening with the same person or venue. It's a lot to take in and weighing the potential risks can become a heavy burden to bear. So what do i do? Do i automatically believe everyone that tells me a bad story about a person or venue? Do i automatically put that person or venue on my "Shit List"? If i did, eventually there would be absolutely zero "safe" venues and very few (if any) "safe" people. my answer, at least for now, is the concept of "TREAD LIGHTLY" For me, this basically means: i can go to a venue and not automatically become a "cheerleader" for it...jump into attending every week, become a member or volunteer. i can meet a person and not jump into a relationship, power exchange or private session with them. i can "TREAD LIGHTLY"---go and explore things while trying to keep …
RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual) are important to this life.  RACK says you are aware of the risks you will accept from the kink that you will undertake as will your partner.  While SSC says you are sane, acknowledge that in your opinion what you will do is safe and both you and your partner want to proceed.  It can be as simple as where the two of you are going to have dinner or as complex as you want to make it.  This lifestyle is about a life together with your partner, not just to find a play partner.  If you only want someone to play with, start your profile accordingly.   You and your potential partner will have to discuss what you both want from a relationship together.  That is one of the reasons there should be an initial meeting where you both just talk.  It is better to walk away from a potential relationship in the beginning, if you think it is not what you want than to wait months or years.    If you are not sure, say so and you both may want to spend more time together before committing to a relationship.  Ground rules can and should be set for both of you so you both can be happy. Dominant/submissive are 2 people trying to exist together.  The dominant is the one who normally gets their way while the sub normally does what the other person wants.  While this is normal in the bdsm worled it is also normal in the vanilla world.  Some examples are supervisor and employe, teacher and student, doctor and patient,  police officer and people being stopped to name a few.  Can also throw in waitress and customer.  In all these circumstance, one person has some control over the other. It is the level of control that differentiates how people see themselves and sometimes you can be the opposite of what you normally are.  
(Erotic Fiction) Beating the Beta   Those taut pale flanks on the back of that slender male figure in the mirror are mine, my quivering nakedness slung up to be plied like play doh between her claws, slapped red under her palm and striped raw by her cane. The fervent abuse is not the practice of any fevered fetish, hers or mine, or a play session feeding the masochistic fantasies of a faux submissive by a service top but is in fact about betterment, the diligent application of a judicious program of measured discipline, meted out according to agreed criteria for accomplishments, or rather, accomplishments fallen short.   There is a soft lilt in the femininity of her amusement when she chuckles to herself, a ream of my buttock clenched in her fist. From behind the hood I see her expression in the mirror, something akin to fascination as she squeezes my flesh, twisting its pale smoothness intently under the focus of her steady gaze.   In my middle age, I am by any reasonable measure, a failure and a loser, deficient in almost every way, well short of the achievements of even the most average of my peer group, no career trajectory to speak of, no investment portfolio salted away, no marriages, no children, no travels or notable life experiences, no great works or contributions. And adding insult to injury after these sorry admissions, I bear the humiliation of carrying in the front of my trousers a member so pathetically inadequate to the task of representing manhood to the discerning purview of any feminine connoisseur of the carnal arts or for the selective evaluation of any receptive brood mare that even its frequent laborious erecting for the task of spurting away the goo that collaspects and darkens the shrivelled scrotum between my legs does little to relieve the shame of its diminutive stature or the erosion of my sad soul.   A loud smack cracks the air, the flat sting lighting the peak of my taut buttock as I see her slap my flank w…
Some thoughts from the outside looking in:   I've been walking 3 miles every night and one of my favorite things about taking walks are the thoughts that flow through my head as I'm out there getting in my exercise.  I see a lot of couples walking, some of them hand in hand, taking it slow.  I can't help but wonder if any of them are D/s couples. I wonder if their holding hands that are discreetly cuffed together.  I wonder if under those shorts is a chastity device that She keeps him in?  I wonder if there is a remote fob in Her hand that gives him a little jolt if his pace slows down?   Or, maybe they are a D/s couple but it's just a completely vanilla time for them.  Sure, she's in charge.  She's the Boss.  But they are just having a normal conversation without any D/s context at all.  Maybe no one would ever guess that She rules over him with absolute authority and then, Her shoelace comes undone and he lovingly genuflaspects beneath Her and ties it for Her.  She doesn't even need to ask/tell him to do it.  His service to Her is organic and he's always--ALWAYS--looking for even the smallest service he can provide or gesture he can make to show Her that he knows his place and delights in every single thing She allows him to do for Her. When I think about this lifestyle, which I understand that I don't just want but need, it's not the the super kinky fetish scenes I imagine.  It's going for a walk together.  Its about always holding Her hand. It's about tying Her shoes for Her.  Maybe it's not a walk at all.  Maybe it's playing a board game or sitting down and having coffee making up stories about the people that pass by on the sidewalk out front.  Maybe it's picking out the couples we think are like us--undercover Miss and slave--and why we suspect it, making each other laugh with our reasons for suspecting them.  Maybe it's watching O/our favorite TV show (ie. Your favor…
MENTAL STIMULATION If my mind, personality, behaviour, spark, is not enough to induce your submission then we will likely not be suited. Have a curious mind, be educated, articulate, passionate about some things, relatively cultured, and able to philosophise for times when my mind needs stimulation. If I win a battle of the wits, and your mind impresses me, then I may want to have my way with you. You could be taken from feeling intellectually stimulated to sexually submissive relatively quickly. PRACTICAL HELP Have some of the following skills with an open minded attitude to training/improvement: Indoor and Outdoor house work Cuisine (at least a few refined good dishes) Car detailing IT/admin (connectivity between devices, accounting software or website/booking systems, sorting digital files, tax/finances record keeping) DAILY LIVING AND LIVING ARRANGEMENTS Be kind, thoughtful, physically affectionate, possess a smart (not crude) sense of humour and be socially engaging for times when I need to have you on my arm in public I live in Geelong on my own, and it will stay this way. I will see you on a part time basis depending on how much I enjoy your company.  I have a spare bedroom you will sleep in if you stay, other than during the times I want you in my room with me. If you do not live locally, be able to drive to me for an evening, or half a day at a time as a minimum, 1-2 times a week minimum. I don’t do remote/long distance. INTERESTS Camping, finding nice swimming spots, my dogs, road trips Good food, coffee, drink of choice gin and tonic (no beer) Intelligent TV/film dramas (not into sport unless it’s soccer, animation or bad comedy) Jigsaws, escape rooms, games nights, art, plants, touch therapy and massage. I don’t smoke or do drugs. I’d prefer you didn’t either. Instant turn offs for me (unless you’re just a simple fuck) would be: overt racism, extreme political or religious views, a low…
Pavlov’s Dog Part 4 You’re sitting working, your mind deep in thought. The glue on your womanly parts is still holding on tight, it’s been a little over two weeks. You’re trying hard not to think about my soft kisses, how I spoon you to sleep every night, how I love running my tongue over your womanhood, how I nibble your nipples and the back of your neck, and how you melt into my arms, as you’re horny enough without frustrating yourself any more. Then the remote control vibrator stirs from inside your cunt. Your knees instantly grip tight. Oh how you want to cum. As quickly as it vibrates, it stops. You’ll do anything to end the sexual tension I’ve created. But at the same time, the ownership and control is somewhat comforting.————————————————————“We’re going to walk up the mountain tomorrow. It will cause you to sweat. The oils will loosen the grip on your chastity.” You thank me and ask me if that means I will be allowed to cum. I am quick to answer, something I thought you may pick up on, but you don’t. “Of course pet. Of course.” You smile as I hug you and kiss you on the top of your head. —————————————————————- As we get out of the car at the base of the mountain trail I reach into my pocket to remove the remote control, turning it to ‘on’ and ‘increasing frequency’. You instantly feel it stir. I leave the remote in the car. The vibrator will stay on, and the harmonics will increase until the batteries expire. “Well, you did say you wanted to cum. Let’s go, a nice brisk walk. But if you cum before we get to the top of the mountain I’ll be doing something a bit more interesting than glue. I…
"So into you" or why ification is not as flattering as some guys think it is A post from my group- from Jan 2022 ___________ The subject today will be centered around ification, and how lack of the right actions is getting in the way of what you want. Recently my day was spent prepping for Mom spending the night, which mostly meant me continuing to organize, clean and just generally improving the space in my sewing room, (the only real spare room) which has a futon, and most importantly, DOORS, so she can have privacy and quiet from my cats. Now, being ADD, I work better with music and company, so I put music on that she and I can both enjoy- a Pandora station based on the Doobie Brothers I started just for her. And being who I am, I tend to listen to lyrics, and then often find myself analyzing them. Usually, I'm specifically analyzing the relationship failings described in them. It doesn't always stop me enjoying the music, but sometimes I recognize the stalkery mindsets that filled our airwaves when I was young and impressionable. As were the guys who were listening. It's not surprising that we all grew up thinking these kinds of unhealthy behaviors and expectations were normal, and even romantic. Songs like Boston's "Let me take you home tonight," where a guy is explaining to a woman he's never actually met before that he's basically been stalking her and built a strong fantasy and expectations about who she is, and now he feels that she should absolutely feel both flattered, and obligated to have sex with him. "You must understand this, I've watched you for so long, that I feel I've known you, I know it can't be wrong," and goes on to say "I'm dreamin of your sweet love tonight, let me take you home tonight." So… he's been watching her for a long time without talking to her, decided who she was without ever having a single conversation, and, of course, imagining sex with her. A lot. And he tells her so, over and over and over. Let me do this …
Desire part 3   I slapped his erection and asked, "do you belong to me?"   "Ehn" he nodded, the veins in his arms standing out as he tensed and raised his hips again nodding as best he could.   I squeezed his erection roughly. Scooting my body backward and hovering over it.    "Do you want to be inside of me?"    He made a strangled noise and thrust up in my grasp. I slammed down on him. Filling myself. Fucking myself with him as if he were just a living dildo. He moaned under his hood. A faceless man. An object. A dog.  Not allowed to cum unless I used the command word. The special word. One I won't write here.   I moaned and rode him leaning back and grinding so that his pubic hair tickled my clit, then leaning forward to press the sensitive bud into his pubic bone. I could feel myself clenching around him and dripping, soaking us both as I drew closer to my orgasm.   "Please. your. Empress," I hissed, "hold your breath for me." I pressed my hands over his mouth and nose in his hood and rode him harder, my ass and thighs clapping against his thighs. And for 40 seconds he seemed to be calm but then he began to buck, fighting for air as he neared a minute without, his heart beat furiously in his chest, visibly so, and his bucking slowed, I felt myself there at the edge of my orgasm, I let him have air and released his bound arms. Tired from restriction he reached out slowly and grabbed my thighs and hips and thrust up into me furiously as I cried out in pleasure. Dripping around him as my pussy sucked and twitched and clenched around him.  Obediently he didn't cum.  Once I finished he put his hands back beside his head so that I could bind him again. He lay there still. His dick still deep inside of me. His heart still racing as his chest rose and fell.   I climbed off of him and stumbled towards the door as he lay there on the floor. I gave him one final look and said, "good night, …
  Here's instructions I send to potential subs with little or no experience sucking cock that are not able to begin RT training yet, but will be beginning their training in the future.  It will give you insight into my desires and my style.  If you get hard reading it, that's an indication that we could be for each other.  Note that if you are experienced, and can deep throat already, I have no problem with that.   I have a great deal of experience in training fellatio.  I've done it with all my sex partners, even before I started using subs.  I have taught many sexual partners and subs to be excellent suckers of my cock.  It's much easier with subs, as I don't have to worry about their ego or feelings, plus I can punish them when they aren't following my instructions.  The key to succeeding as my cocksucker is a strong desire to become skilled in that sensual sex act.  If you're willing to listen, obey, and practice, practice, practice, I will absolutely give the training and guidance that is needed to develop into an accomplished dick licker.  Everyone who's ever continued my training has been suck-cessful.  No one has ever not been able to do it, but sometimes the relationship has ended for other reasons before they became proficient.  They didn't develop all the skills, but any of them could have.  My favorite technique to teach is deep throat.  I've had multiple people with very strong gag reflexes that were sure they would never be able to do it.  They all learned to take my cock all the way down their throats, hold it there and massage it with their throat muscles until I cum, as well as take a vigorous, extended, and deep face fucking from me.  So if you really want to become a blowjob expert, I'm an excellent Master for you.  I'll share some pre-training suggestions that can give you a head start for when you start giving head.   I want you t…
In answer to an email of a Sir - perhaps others may find more of me too? Sir, I cannot limit myself to a list of check-off boxes, but I detest age play, cnc is something to be careful with and my nipples are simply pain 98%of the time. Water works in themselves aren't appealing to me, but being a slave, I've had bathroom privileges controlled, well, anything in life controlled, to varying levels. I'll obey, but telling me if I can piss or not will not arose me in the least. I'm pretty sure I outgrew roleplay at least a decade ago, but perhaps that wasn't just from a heavy kink community, but young kids.    I think I would be a real pressure on you, kink wise, as honestly, your list is very soft for me. I'm into REAL. I don't do structured scenes unless we're required to, I live my life with a kinky sstreak in all I do. I want a non-stop connection not just to love and laughter, friendship, lust, sex, and more - but to what we are D/s wise. Whether it be subtle like collar or chain, or overt like a controlled regimen or ritualized, it has to flow like the rest does. Not saying it won't ebb and flow, but like the ocean, it doesn't stop.    I need a man who's in the more aggressive and assertive edge. Controlling for his pleasure, but only to the limit of mine. there IS a line between use and abuse; I learned that the hard way. I am a heavy player, as my pictures on fet show. I provide that link very seriously because this website is far too "woke" for who I am. I'm very based, very raw, very tactile and serious. I walk my funny side hand in hand with my serious side and I'm careful of when to laugh or when to stop.    I am very cerebral, very into topics that interest me and I love a rousing argument just as much as I do a relaxed interaction. I get excited over things that others may not connect to other things I like and I slide between topics in a weave of conscious flow that can confuse many people. If you can't juggle 3 or mo…