Hello there, and thanks for stopping by!  I have been interested in D/s for a long time and feel that I have become more of a slave than a submissive.  I would like to meet a dominant woman who is interested in a long term female-led relationship based on the total power exchange.

Common interests are an ideal starting point within vanilla and D/s but ultimately not the most important.  No two people have identical interests.  Besides, interests can change as we learn and are exposed to new things.  Therefore the interests I have listed here are very flexible.  I am open to new vanilla interests and of course I am open to new things within the lifestyle.  I wouldn't be a true slave if that were not the case.  A slave has to be willing to take on his owner's interests and also be willing to have his own limits tested and stretched if she so decides.

Most of all, a slave has to be obedient and be able to anticipate her desires.  The obediece factor is obvious but anticipating her desires takes learning and training.  Ultimately it's about focusing on her happiness and from that a slave acheives happiness himself.

That is the type of relationship I seek.