I am a sensual/gentle dominant/dominant-leaning switch who is looking for a male submissive or submissive-leaning switch. Being a sensualist, I am not into extreme pain or humiliation. If you need those things, I’m not the person for you. Due to various reasons, I don’t like the title “mistress”; do not address me as such.

I am interested in a long term, in-person, and monogamous relationship. I want a D/s dynamic that is seamlessly intertwined with a loving relationship. A deep connection is wanted, so no hookups or anything casual!

Again, to reiterate, I am looking for someone who wants a loving and sincere relationship! I do not want to meet up to play. There must be a developed connection and trust before anything will happen.

I am looking for someone like-minded and a best friend. He, hopefully, will thrive outdoors. My partner should be honest, trustworthy, kind, and always willing to learn. He must have the ability to communicate openly and be emotionally intelligent. I’m attracted to intelligent problem-solvers who are clever and handy, but it is not a requirement.

Do not expect me to pursue anything if you are married or already in a relationship. I am only interested in singlemales, ages 40 to 56, for an in-person, kinky relationship, nothing online.

Most people describe me as an introverted, creative type. I may be quiet in nature, but do not mistake it for timidity. I am divorced, educated, and an artist. Yes, I am a “big” woman, but I prefer to eat healthy foods and try to stay active.