Hi.  I'm only looking to talk for now and if things seem right maybe we can meet.  I've tried this search before and I gave up on finding MY Dom. My age, my weight, my lack of experience in the lifestyle, and my preferences will likely make it hard for me.  I think most men are looking for young and fit girls.  I assure you, I'm not some feminist who refused to devote my life to any man.  In fact, I was married for 24 years to the father of all my kids.  He was also my first sexual encounter.  It was not good, we just didn't last so I married again and the second one crawled into a bottle in 2020 and never returned to me.  I was always a submissive woman at heart but I did not share these feelings or values with either husband. I simply suppressed who I was because I thought I was weird.  Now I'm ready to be myself but I won't compromise my own preferences and that means there has to be someone out there who not only fits my ideal but he must also be accepting of my flaws and the many years of baggage I carry.  I would love to chat with any and all but please be ready for honesty.  I expect nothing more than your honesty in return. Let's respect that we all have preferences. This is exciting!! I'm ready to chat!         Xoxo jodie