How does one reconcile their desire to be the good girl, the service oriented submissive with the desires she has for pain and discipline?  She can be innocent despite her age, but in some ways she is knowing.  Knowing her place is to be beside a man, he is an integral part of her and she is a part of him that he didn't know he needed.  He can be strict but doesn't need to totally control her because her wants are his and she will be taught what his desires will be.  He will be her Father, Daddy, friend and confidant.  She will be the one person he can share his true self with.  She is strong enough to bolster him when he is human and needs her strength.  But she needs his support to become her rock. The one she can rely on to always be steadfast, even when she thinks she doesn't need his guidance.  This goes beyond a sexual connection, he KNOWS her.  Because he cares enough to study her and be observant.