Until some years ago the word 'surrender' used to be used more often in relation to submission. It seems to be disappearing...to be replaced with what? Rights and expectations?

The Black DressThere's no night after sunset,no absence of lightor of voices, orders, inspirationsthat draw you to my worship. There's darkness onlyin the blackness of your elegant dress,oozing desire out of every line, curve, shadow,absolute in its grip on your hipsand arse. That cock-starved arseis due for another spanking...isn't that what you begged foron the phone? But your worship has been erratic,your weak words have been rejected. You need to be punished,deprived of your usual fare. Your fuckholes, deformed by emptiness,by desire....How much do you thinkI'd get if I whore you out tonightor tomorrow as your husbanddrives to work, a couple of ladswill be driving their hard cocksdeep into your wet cunt, you filthy fucktoy. Then, and only then, will your dressbe ready for wearing again. Then, and only then will my bare handconsider spanking your married arsetill you're screaming that I'm your All,your Everything. You, my faithful toy.

Is there a more sexually arousing concept than the idea of moral corruption through seduction? The promise and expectation that lies in that infinite chain of corruption is so exquisitely tempting every time I get a whiff of it...

With some of my subs I like using the word 'cheap' and it creates mixed reactions. Some love it, others find it the worst of offensive abuse.   English is not my mother tongue so I might be missing some nuances, but to me cheap sounds nasty whilst worthless, as a possible synonym, is meaningless.

Hope you all had a good naughty start to 2014.