what a Dom is(imho)  and in no particular order someone you have something in common with besides kink understands  your thoughts, fears, goals, past has many of the same kinks as you, but willing to let you explore your sexual interests puts their sub above everyone, even themself has laid out the rules, but knows at times there are exceptions and allows negations talks about the rule broken and explains why you will be punished is consistent with rules NEVER punishes in anger is proud of their sub  does not point out 'flaws' they already are well aware of, to gain an ego trip looks after her health, mental and physical knows her well enough to know if something is bothering her, and gently finds out what protaspects her at all times is in charge without micromanaging is kind & caring expaspects a sub to 'know her place'  will never put the sub in danger during play provides aftercare understands some subs need alone time understands submission is a gift, not a right is human, and will make mistakes, but owns up to them, and is not afraid to apologize trusts their sub, to allow privacy with email, phone texts, text messages, etc. grows with their sub

Feeling like I dodged a bullet.  So if me telling you about my past, my daily happenings makes you feel like I am looking to be rescued. Think again. I consider it getting to know what make a person tick,  Mentioning an allergy attack be seen as negatively?  Ok. So, stay on your armored horse. i dont need to deal with an ego that big. I don't need an ego as big as that.

So today's asshole of the day wins the pize for this opening message.  Do you masturbate often and with enthusiasm? Really?? Then he proceeded in calling me a moron for calling him out on it.    Another troll meets the blocked bin.

How is it one song can bring you to tears??

When you have weeded out the liars, and narcissists.. the Sirs get slim...