No nonsense, experienced, calm, relaxed, successful, confident, experienced, demanding and understanding dominant who knows what he wants. Strict, sadistic, merciless yet caring and understanding. Leaning towards extremes, you do need to be both natural submissive pleaser and a masochist for us to match.

I'm just about to return to Finland after 15 years of living abroads, been a while and will see how it goes! Should I stay or should I go? Remains to be seen.