People constantly ask me 'what am I looking for?' Honestly what are we all looking for? Connection, friendships, meanigful people in our lives. Don't ask me that rather pointless question ok.

I am an individual who has led a weird life. Many of the standard rules have never applied to me.

Iv'e never lived in a suburb.

I didn't like my birthcountry so I indeed left it!

I have always been self employed.

I don't eat processed foods.

I write novels, and make art.

I have never reconciled with my biological sex.

I am medically incapable of ANY penetrative sex!

I am not religious.

I live off grid.

I have kept both slaves, and been enslaved.

I don't enjoy material possessions.

Not once have I felt an attraction to a Heterosexual man!

I'm married to a Gay Dom top.

I really won't write a lot if I don't enjoy the conversation it will not go far. I have met someone here though that was clever enough to draw me in. Perhaps lightning strikes twice!

Wow! I have beeen away from here for over a year and the same old stale procession of people assault my inbox!

When the internet began I thought wow this has such magnificent potential, sadly it's evolved to this. Internet BD/sm is just weird. Worthless little meaningless messages, mostly sent by men exchanged with me here. If you can't write anything decent that grabs my attention I will not waste my time in a reply. I don't care how my search is going and don't need to discuss it with you, I don't want your sad dick photos, or to hear about your lame conquests.

I'm absolutely not into these guys that want to have a no escape slavery situation... I don't want to be that responsible for anybody.

I am a SWITCH if you try and put me in a box before any natural chemistry takes place, wanting me to be that thing you are looking for I will disengage swiftly. I don't like it, I don't want to be your Dom automatically, or your sub, thank you very much. Use titles and I will be gone too.