Greetings.
Preface: I fully expect everyone to *read* my profile. As few to virtually *none* actually *read* profiles, I will be *grading* applicants that prove they know how to follow directions.
In the off chance you are one of the few who *do* read profiles, I offer the following information.
1.) All interests vanilla & otherwise are listed *in* this profile, so should *any* message contain "what are you *into*?", know that you have *lowered* your potential for receiving a reply.
2.) For now, I will *not* expect you to capitalize Honorifics when addressing me at this point, just as *I* will not be capitalizing when I type, "me", "mine", etc. I expect us to get to know each other at this juncture.
3.) I am a 40 year old female who is a S/switch, submitting *only* to my Dominant of *16 years*. I am *ONLY* seeking *bottoms*/*submissives*/*slaves* as I have given my submission to the *only* person deserving (my Dominant has no interest in participating in *my* Dominating activies, so they will *not* be joining us, merely making certain I am safe).
4.) I am a Sapiosexual (the internet exists for a reason- research it if you do not know what that means), thus what I seek should intellectually stimulate as well.
5.) I am a huge impact player and have some new toys but they are thus far unused.
6.) During our initial conversation, I do not expect instant subservience. If you use the word sub in a sentence several things come to mind. I will think either of a submersible vessel, a delicious type of sandwich, or the phrase ‘I need a safeword’, but you are not my sub yet. I prefer to review applicants without haste while enjoying a delicious type of sandwhich (clearly, I *can* have a sense of humor *when appropriate*).
7.) As far as messages go, penis photographs are automatic blocks- if you seek to submit to a Dominant Female, do *not* act like a moronic drunken fratboy.
8.) I offer long-term Dominance, but only to the right, *select* candidates. I can be firm, but fair- I can be brutal, but nuturing. Also, do *not* embarass yourself by attempting to Top from the bottom- not a good look given you are applying to serve as a "bottom/submisive/slave", thus you *will* be dimissed.
9.) Begin your message with an appropriate greeting, then begin to state your level of experience, your interests, not merely what *you* "want". Detail for me: *why* do you *seek* submission to a woman- what do *you* offer *me* as your Dominant.
10.) I live in Frederick County in Maryland, so be *local* *only*. I expect any bottoms/submissives/slaves to drive to *me* as *I* will *not* be driving to *you*. I have no need for a car or license as I have everything I need within walking distance. If you live an hour drive away, that is acceptable.
DON'T ASK FOR MY PHONE NUMBER OR ANY OTHER MEANS OF CONTACT IMMEDIATELY. I WILL GIVE IT TO YOU WHEN I FEEL COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO DO SO, AND DON'T BE PUSHY ABOUT MEETING ME IN PERSON. I WILL SAY ABSOLUTELY NOT, AND BLOCK YOU.
Love and Illumination, Lady DreamFyre.