When it comes to first impressions and initial messages a few things are important to keep in mind: If you find yourself asking me when I'll be moving in with you.  Don't.If you find yourself explaing what my routine will be as your basement-dwelling chained up toy.  Don't.If you find yourself sharing all the things you've done with previous conquests. Don't. I try to be a positive person but some of you make it very hard.  I mean I like hard things, but not like this.