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Sydisa
Female Dominant, 60, East Bay Area, California 
Sydisa

I'm a cheerful, creative, playful, Dominant, Demisexual cis Woman.

I use the following names: Ms. Sydisa, Ms. Syd, Ms. S, or MS. I do not use other honorifics if we have not met in person. Using anything else shows you do not pay attention, don't know how to read, or don't care, which is too bad for you.

I regularly attend local munches at different venues. If you message me and want to meet, plan to visit one of the munches. Stop by, introduce yourself, and enjoy the community! That's how it starts, building connections and community. I don't bite unless we agree to it. I can't speak for anyone else at the munch, though. Note I prefer to meet in person sooner rather than later. If you need to be discrete, I am not the Lady for you. I will not be a secret. I do not blast my business all over the place, either.

I'm fully vaccinated for Covid and keeping up with boosters. I'm vaccinated to remain healthy, and I believe in the science of vaccinations. 

I do not participate in online domination.

I enjoy venturing around the Bay Area and beyond. I enjoy vanilla things like movies, day trips, etc., and the FLR/TPE lifestyle together.

I am seeking a local submissive(s) for a Power Exchange Dynamic; I fully embrace Total Power Exchange/Transfer. The submissive will strive to give devotion and obedience in their submission. The submissive understands submission is about behaving in a way that pleases me. I expect the submissive(s) to perform at their best and continue to learn what they do not know. They should be willing to pay attention, learn, and ask questions in a way that considers what I desire. Their thoughts should always be what my Lady desires.

What services would I want my submissive to perform? A chef, handyman, and masseuse are a few. The submissive must live close by and be able to drive to my home regularly. What do you offer? If you are interested in one area of submission, such as cooking or yard work, we can discuss if you would be appropriate for me in this role. The same rules and expectations apply.

I do not provide punishments for submissives failing to do what they agreed on. If they think about bratting (acting out) or failing to serve to get punishment, forget it, I will dismiss you and walk away. If what you have to offer has to include sexual service, don't bother. The submissive(s) should be able to focus on the Dominant and not the submissive(s) needs. Special times, play, and treats are at my whim.

I adore PDA, touching, hugging, cuddling, snuggling, or watching TV together—ideally, a partner who desires physical touch and affection makes me happy. It would be best if you liked to be touched because I want to feel your energy through touch; it feeds me. Touch is an intimate connection that creates a personal, physical, and mental relationship as two people grow together. My primary receiving love languages are Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Words of Affirmation. I adore handwritten notes or letters.

A man who says he is interested never lets Me forget it by his actions. I should never be left guessing.

Requirements, not Expectations

 Respect My time ~ Be there, be on time (words/actions)

 Match My efforts ~ I will not work harder than you

 Keep your word ~ Your word is the honor you start with

 Always be honest ~ An omission is a choice you willingly make

 Stay consistent ~ Consistency builds trust

Messages

If you send me a single-line message, one-word comments, etc., you will not get or keep my attention or a response. Show interest in a respectful petition and try to keep my attention.

Boundaries and Limits

I have boundaries and limits in My kink and vanilla life.

Meeting Me

I will insist on an initial meeting face to face sooner rather than later to determine whether there is a connection and chemistry. Is there anything between us to grow with?

If you are not open to meeting in person or using the word discrete, the answer is “NO.”

Friends are lovely, but I do not want only to chat online or be a secret.

Use your voice to ask questions. Don't make assumptions; ask me if you don't understand. Understand communication is essential to Me

Consistency is vital with my submissive or those I'm considering. I require regular communication. I prefer phone conversations to texting because texts lose context, meaning, and inflection. Texting works in some situations for short periods, but silence is never golden when it comes to communication.

 

Is anyone going to Dark Odyessy - Surrender in San Jose, Oct 20-23, 2023?  

  I am curious. I asked this question of several submissive men who responded to my ad; do you have a kinky resume?  This is exactly like a normal resume but instead details your kinky experience. I was told no; they did not have one.  Because my group is D/s oriented, we took on an Owner's Manual and Kinky Resume for our group.  Wow, the responses and excitement were awesome. As a group, we decided the work put into both of these items would help either side of the sash get to know their partners on a deeper level, and if triggers were set off, we each could handle them better.  This ramped up negotiations to a new level.  As one of the co-moderators for the event said, every car we own comes with an owner's manual, so why not one for us, like a car, we have moments when our 'lights come on,' or the shit hits the fan.  This is something I want to see. Everyone claims experience, but what classes are they taking to be good at XYZ?  What events do they attend, and so on.  What do you think? 

Requirements, not Expectations.   Respect My time Match My efforts  Keep your word Always be honest Stay consistent   Show up, be on time (words/actions) I will not work harder than you Your word is the honor you start with Omission is the choice you willingly make Consistency builds trust.   Start out being the best you can be and grow. Think about each of these: how to improve a relationship or blow it up by choosing not to do these things. 

Extra, too much, enough Dear men, Before you say I'm 'extra' and 'too much,' ask yourself ... 'are you even enough'? Compliments of the Single Woman. The right man will love you right.

Favorite statements~ Whatever you wish, Madame I'll do whatever she tells me to do

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