Hi, I'm Mark. I've put a fair bit about myself below, but if you want more about any aspect of it, just ask. 

I'm Master, partner, lover & friend of a collared sub. Our relationship dynamic works for us, and while it may not conform to some peoples ideas of what a D/s couple should look like, we're happy with it growing and evolving as we do. I'd ask you to respect it as not doing so will simply result in you being blocked (or possibly admonished and then blocked). My sub will see any messages pertaining to her, so be respectful. If you're interested in meeting us as a couple, you would have more luck on another FABulous SWINGERS site.

Let me be clear on one thing first: BDSM isn't all consuming for me. As far as I'm concerned, it's a kink, not a lifestyle.

I'm a hedonist at heart. If something pleasures one of my senses, great! Fortunately for me, what I have with my sub pleasures all five senses, and maybe a couple I've not identified yet too! That said, as a hedonist, I do believe more is definitely more!

I’m unshockable and I don't judge people becuse of what into. Well OK, maybe a little bit, in private, voiced only to myself, but that doesn't mean I'm any less tollerant or inclusive than anyone else. Equally, I don’t expect to feel judged for what I like! I may not be excited or turned on by all of your kinks & fetishes, just as you probably aren’t into all of mine, but as long as we respect each other’s boundaries and there is enough overlap in what we do enjoy, then we should be able to work something out!

I’m equally happy taking things slowly to get comfortable with each other before having some great playtime, as I am with quick hookups, where we hardly exchange pleasantries before we start pulling each other’s clothes off!

Either way, we could mess about trying to decide to make the first move and send a message and never meet. Alternatively, one of us could be brave, hit the button and start this off!

I don't host at mine for various reasons, but if meeting I am very happy to travel to you or a club/other venue. I'm also splitting my time and meets between Herts and Surrey (Kingson area). 

Whatever happens, let’s get comfortable, enjoy the chemistry between us, get naked, get to the point, and make the most of whatever party we make for ourselves.