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 Female Dominant

 Cleveland

 Ohio

 5' 5"

 66

 Hetero

 African Descent

 11 hours ago

Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane
by those who could not hear the music.
(Nietzche)

I am not a Domme or a Dominatrix.

I am a Dominant Woman.
I don't have any other way of . . . being.

This is not a game to me.

This is not something I do.
This is something I am.

Generally speaking, I do not like submissive men.
I much prefer men who are submissive to me.
There is a difference.

And just for the record - men who say they are not worthy - usually aren't!

I truly believe that the essence of submission is choice and that there can be no submission without inner struggle.

In the Interest of Transparency

During chats I have been described as amazing, strong, intelligent, impressive, and interesting among other things. Whether those things are true or not, I know that I am not everyone's cup of tea. The following 3 things about me are considered to be deal-breakers for some.

  1. I am Black;
  2. I have a disability; and
  3. I am a BBW.

It's all about perception.  Do not waste your time or mine.

A Few of My Favoirite Quotes

The unexamined life is not worth living.
(Socrates)

We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.
(May Sarton)

Submission lies not in the act, but in the will.
(Unknown)

Submissive men, men who desire to serve as consensual slaves, are on one of the most difficult journeys in the world today, because they have rejected patriarchal privilege and embraced their own hearts calling instead.
(Tammy Jo Eckhart)

Many men desire you. I want to serve you.
(Unknown)

Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.
(Henri Frederic Amiel)

It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives.
It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.

(Charles Darwin)

There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable.
(Mark Twain)

And then the day came when the risk to remain tight, in a bud,
became more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

(Anaïs Nin)

If your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough.
(Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, the first woman president of an African nation)

Know thyself.
(Socrates)

 

https://fetlife.com/users/58495

 Loviante Page 5 is one of my favs - https://www.twpornstars.com/loviante?page=5 “People know me as Loviante and I’m an artist based in Bucharest, spending part of his spare time creating digital illustrations that depict fetish scenes. I’ve always been passionate about magical realism in art and I think some of that love is reflected in my illustrations a little. What I enjoy about BDSM is the ritualistic aspect of it, it is like trying to take sexuality to another level and bring more complexity to it. It gives the common sexual behaviour an intricate twist.” – Loviante Loviante is a profession artist and fetish illustrator who produces glorious femdom art. Delicate, black and white fantasy scenes, set in a bygone era and seeped in an air of Deco decadence. They detail superior aloof ladies in a world where women rule supreme. The men exist as objectified servants and slaves, always naked, exposed and vulnerable. Often bound in ‘Heath Robinson-esque’ elaborate and ingenious torment contraptions. He uses interesting composition shapes for his pieces. With his subjaspects depicted in almost hyperrealism aided by his amazing use of depth; you feel like you are looking into his work, it has a 3D quality. Importantly enhancing the story he is telling in each of his unique works. This is truly what makes his art so glorious, as each piece tells such an intricate femdom story. You feel the players come alive, you fill in their back stories and imagine what the rest of their day must have been like.  

Maybe This Isn't For Me I am not like the others. I am not a kitten with a whip. <shrug> I don't pretend. I don't see the reason to do it. I don't like it. I have never been good at it and the truth always comes out in the end anyway. I am relatively low maintenance. I am not a girly girl. That means I don't wear makeup, no fake nails, and my hair is natural . . . no wigs, extensions or dyes. I am more tomboy-ish than girly-girl-ish. I am down to earth. I am not a screaming, shrewish bitch . . . not here or in my 'nilla world. I rarely raise my voice. In fact, the quieter I am the more dangerous I am. And when I quit talking . . . that is never a good sign. I am not going to throw around harsh commands at you or have fake hissy fits. I am not going to yell insults at you. Is calling you a slut boy really an insult if that is what you are? <grin> I don't want your money. If you are the right one you have something far more valuable to me than money. I laugh a lot and I am a giggler. I can't help it. Something about someone allowing themselves to be tied to my bed knowing full well that what is to come could to be . . . well, let's say . . . interesting . . . just totally cracks me up. I love it! <smile> I guess that could be the sadist in me. Sometimes I think this isn't for me. Then I realize that D/s moves me in a way that almost nothing else does. It is ingrained in me . . . deep . . . to the core . . . through and through. It is the perspective from which I view the world and how I relate to others, vanilla and otherwise. This is for me because, quite simply, it is who and what I am.  

Where Are They? Are there other people out there who don't really like play parties and who rarely attend munches? Where are they? Are there people out there who, although intensely involved in this lifestyle, are private in nature and would rather spend time with a small group of people or perhaps at a private party? Where are they? Are there people out there who, despite having been involved in this lifestyle a number of years, do not boast or brag? Where are they? Are there people out there who are more interested and involved in D/s than B/d or S/m? Where are they? Are there people out there who want more than a play partner? Where are they? Wherever they are, these are my people. I know they are out there, but where are they? Where are you?   https://fetlife.com/users/58495/posts/10603867  

Things for Which I Will Not Apologize I will not apologize for not being your fantasy. I will not apologize for not doing what you want me to do. I will not apologize for not being what you want me to be. I will not apologize for not being a fet dispenser. I will not apologize for not being like the ones who came before me (no pun intended). I will not apologize for walking away. I will not apologize for distancing myself from drama. I will not apologize for recognizing who and what you really are. I will not apologize for recognizing what you really want. I will not apologize for not wanting what you want. I will not apologize for being honest. I will not apologize for saving myself. I will not apologize for not reconnecting with people or situations that are not healthy for me. I will not apologize for wanting what I want. I will not apologize for being my authentic self.  

To Anyone Who Has Ghosted Or Blocked Me Thank you. When a person ghosts or blocks me I think it says more about them than it does about me. When someone ghosts or blocks me I say a little prayer. Well, that's not the first thing I do. The first thing I do is to probably to say a few little curse words --- just a few of my favorites --- and then I say a little prayer. I say the prayer because I am thankful that I dodged a bullet. I think that people who ghost or block others are weak and cowardly. They don't have the strength of character, integrity, honesty, or courage that I want, in fact, require in anyone that I am associated with whether it be a friend, a submissive, a colleague, or anyone else. They are doing me a favor by ghosting or blocking me because I am better off without them.  

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