Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane
by those who could not hear the music. (Nietzche)
I am not a Domme or a Dominatrix.
I am a Dominant Woman.
I don't have any other way of . . . being.
This is not a game to me.
This is not something I do.
This is something I am.
Generally speaking, I do not like submissive men.
I much prefer men who are submissive to me.
There is a difference.
And just for the record - men who say they are not worthy - usually aren't!
I truly believe that the essence of submission is choice and that there can be no submission without inner struggle.
In the Interest of Transparency
During chats I have been described as amazing, strong, intelligent, impressive, and interesting among other things. Whether those things are true or not, I know that I am not everyone's cup of tea. The following 3 things about me are considered to be deal-breakers for some.
- I am Black;
- I have a disability; and
- I am a BBW.
It's all about perception. Do not waste your time or mine.
A Few of My Favoirite Quotes
The unexamined life is not worth living.
(Socrates)
We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.
(May Sarton)
Submission lies not in the act, but in the will.
(Unknown)
Submissive men, men who desire to serve as consensual slaves, are on one of the most difficult journeys in the world today, because they have rejected patriarchal privilege and embraced their own hearts calling instead.
(Tammy Jo Eckhart)
Many men desire you. I want to serve you.
(Unknown)
Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.
(Henri Frederic Amiel)
It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives.
It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.
(Charles Darwin)
There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable.
(Mark Twain)
And then the day came when the risk to remain tight, in a bud,
became more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
(Anaïs Nin)
If your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough.
(Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, the first woman president of an African nation)
Know thyself.
(Socrates)
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