We don't smoke, we don't take drugs, we drink Burgundy wine from time to time, as gourmets often do. We are disease free. We have been a couple for 38 years. Unfortunately, my wife can no longer be the consenting victim of my cruel games for some time. Before knowing my wife, I had few SM relationships but all of a respectable duration of more than 10 years. I lived simultaneously with two submissives at home. SM relationship in private only.