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This post will probably get fleshed out more as I gain the knowledge and time of what I'd like to say

Starting off, About Me:

I grew up in a very traditional culture where Men were the dominant entity and females were the ones that were led. That has probably shaped my worldview as well as my kinks the most. Necessary disclaimer, I do not believe that every female needs to submit to a man and/or should be forced too. On the contrary, I actually believe that most Men in our society these days exude mediocrity and are not worthy of being the leaders in their relationships. Just some food for thought.

I am currently 20 years old and of African American descent, the son of first generation immigrants. I am of average height and have an athletic/fit body type in addition to having, if you care about size, an average size appendage. I have current body pictures posted on my profile and if we click, face pictures are available as well.

I currently reside in the Bay Area, specifically on the East Side in San Jose, renting with roomates so I can host in addition to the fact that I do drive, so a little bit of a distance is not too much of a complication. I currently do not have any kids ( that I know of), work full time as well as attend college classes full time so if you shoot me a message and it takes a little to get back to you, I am most likely occupied with other engagements and will do my best to respond as soon as possible. I try my best to respond to all messages within 48 hours.

Other than kink. I am an INTJ. I like to read, workout, puzzle, play boardgames, sing karaoke and absolutely infatuated with anything to do with tools and cars. I currently own two vehicles and an enormous cohort of tools in which to repair them, so if you ever need something fixed; I'm your guy.

An important tidbit to mention is that I am a pretty nonsexual person. Sex is great, but to me, it is a relationship want rather than a need to have. Most of my pleasure comes from my love language of recieving acts of service and useful gestures

What I am looking for:

I am looking for currently for a short or long term relationship either in real life or online in any of these three categories or a combination of any of them.

1. I have always been fascinated by pain and currently have a pretty high pain tolerance. Tears are a major turn on for me. I am seeking a canvas in order to practice, experiment and explore. My ultimate goal is to have a pain slut who I can beckon and use at my whim as stress release or even just to amuse myself.

2. Discipline has always been a major focus of my life. From the society I grew up in, to my father who served my country with honor to personal beliefs. Discipline has been one of the few things that has never failed me. I seek to share that gift with someone else who needs it. My ideal candidate would be a young college student in a similar living arrangement as my own who wants someone to ensure they're accountable in eating right, making sure they're living quarters are kept clean, homework done, etc. Depending on how far we go, I'd like to incorporate tpe themes as well as more stringent control, such as orgasm control, clothing, budgetary and communication.

3. I would like to train someone to be the perfect wife or girlfriend. How to cook and clean and do laundry (you'd be surprised at how many people don't know how to do laundry these days). On the other hand. I would like a domestic service relationship especially if its nonsexual. Someone who wants to clean and have it be subject to an inspection with consequences for every little mistake. Think Military white glove inspections.

Closing:

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, I really appreciate it. 

If you do decide to comment or message me, please include your name. A brief deion of who you are and what you're specifically looking to get out of a relationship. Thank you.

V/r

X (Not my real name, obviously)