I was introduced into the lifestyle as an Alpha sub. As the times went by I realized I enjoyed dominance more then submission. So although I list myself as a Domme and that is what I primarly will pursue fulltime I wish to keep a little sub in me and wish to sub maybe one weekend a month. I am a far but demanding Domme and once limits are agreed to I demand strict obedience and no topping from the bottom. Many say BDSM is primarly about trust and it is. But I find for me it also enhances other desires. I just found a place to live after my Dom released me.