Hello there, I consider myself a pretty laid back and easy going guy. I am here hoping to find people to build long lasting friendships with. I tend to get along very well with people who identify as submissives, slaves, doormats. While i am looking for women i am open to being platonic friends with submissive guys, because honestly life is too short to not make new friends :)

Being up front, i am NOT looking for a serious monogamous relationship. As i am already married and have no desire to change my situation. Don't worry about drama or having to sneak around as i am ethical about this. My wife is aware, supports and encourages this. which brings me to my next point.

While this is primarily for my own purposes of finding new friends to hang out with and hopefully get sexual with. IF you are interested threesomes are a possibility but we will cross that bridge when we get to it.

Generally on the kinky side i am very much a sadist, enjoy degradation, and absolutely love being in control. be it through toys, chastity, rules, commands, punishments and rewards. I love the feeling and rush that comes from control and ownership of another person, especially sexually. For me, i thrive in private environments but i am thrilled for opportunities to excert power in social environments ;)

if you find my profile and think i could be a cool guy to chill with send a message, be friendly! i problaly wont ignore you and might even hang out with you even if you aren't what i am looking for.

my interests include. Dining, Movies, Video Games, Reading, Writing(i write erotica novels from time to time), Photography, and generally exploring of cool places in NYC. I used to be big into tabletop and card games as well.