I can honestly say I've never been in a bdsm style relationship before. I can also say that even the vanilla relationships haven't lasted that long. I am fine to fuck and suck vanilla style but when you watch guys in porn getting tied up and jacked off.. just fucking and sucking won't cut it. 

I would always dream of a local Dom who has the patience and skills to incorporate bondage and edging into an awesome sex life.. but finding anyone close enough that would be into giving a handjob is a challenge. I am a pretty peaceful and calm person. I love to laugh and have a good time. I can not be with or play with a robotic type person who can't enjoy a smile or a decent conversation. I find most Doms to be unnecessarily tough and egotistical and I feel it only limits their true potential. You would have thought I shoved have my hand up a total tops ass sometimes by the attitude people carry around. For me, I rather build a happy positive bond with someone, highlighting what brings us together than focusing on our differences. I am human, far from perfect and expect the same understanding, and expect the same from me In regards to you. 

Bondage and edging obviously are at the top of my list. I have a huge fetish and fantasies about handjobs, extended edging sessions, different extremes of bondage, ruined orgasms, milking. I also have some interests but no experience in chastity. It always sounds so hot but I'm nervous about it. I also find ass play, bottoming, sucking, and (sometimes) feet play to be hot to add to the list. As far as cbt I have never experienced much of it. I have had some bad and some good experiencea and willing to try it again with the right Dom. 

What have I experienced?????? Well besides basic fucking and sucking, I have been tied in a sling, saint Andrew's cross with plastic wrap, spread eagle face up and down, to a fuck bench, chairs, massage tables, tables, etc. I have been edged by some very skilled and some unskilled hands and mouths and truly enjoy someone who gets into orgasm and cum control. Longest I've ever been edged was 3 hrs non stop except for video head cleaner, lube, and for when I got close. I've been milked for 3 loads in 3 hours as well. 

I am a furry guy so if you aren't into that I am willing to shave.

(I will write more when I feel inspired)