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Missblue303
Hetero Female Dominant, 69, Seattle, Washington US 
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Missblue303

This is a new updated profile, my old name was ADomme4you. If you contacteed me there then you can say hi here now.

I am a strong-willed opinionated woman. I am a liberal feminist, and you need to be as well. This is not negotiable.

I like a man who can discuss politics, economic policy and global warming and I expect a knowledgeable lively discussion. I have been in the lifestyle long enough to know that I enjoy most everything kinky.

 

For me, being dominant is not about being harsh or abusive. Rather, it is about understanding the pleasure a submissive man derives from giving up control. And I am well aware that just because you might be interested in submitting in the bedroom, it does not make you submissive in any other sphere of your life. I am passionate, sensuous, patient and kind.

 

Who I am and who I am not.

 

I am the girl next door.

I am the woman walking down the street lost in daydreams.

I love laughter and red roses.

I am straight.

I adore male submissives.

I am 69 with a lifetime of experience in FLR.

I am presently single.

I live in Washington, USA.

I am not a porn Mistress and do not cater to fantasies unless they vibe with my own.

I am not going to dress in leather and lace 24/7. (actually very rarely)

I am barefoot more than I wear heels.

I am not here for your entertainment; I am here for mine.

I believe in love, lust, and romance.

I only enjoy cis male submissives and have zero use for the sissy male or “gurls” beyond friendship. Sorry gurls, I just love men.

I don’t smoke (you cannot smoke) and drink rarely, but I don’t mind if you drink some. I am a BBW, and have a great lifestyle.

 

 Here is a test, (Don’t worry there is no wrong answer….)

 

If I stuck a dildo in your ass what position would you rather be in

 

A. doggie style

B. face down on your stomach

C. flat on your back

D. bent over the side of a chair or

E. something like picking up soap in the shower?

 

I know my perfect sub guy is out there, I hope to hear from you soon……

9/3/2022 10:28:55 AM: Ending a D/s relationship  Bullshit. It is not always the sub who is left feeling lonely, and ending things is the sub’s choice every bit as often as it is the Domme’s choice. And the pain of the loss is the same. Let’s knock off the toxic cliche that the Domme walks off whistling a jaunty tune with nary a look back and the sub is left a bawling mess curled up in a fetal ball on the bathroom floor. Dommes bleed the same blood as subs. Of course there are endless numbers of subs that have been hurt by Dommes, good and bad ones alike. People are hurt when relationships end, any kind of relationship…but when a Domme is hurt by the end of a relationship, she/he has the added burden of knowing THEY were supposed to be the one in control, the one who was supposed to know what they were doing and make things better….and they failed.

8/30/2022 6:38:42 PM:  One of the hardest things to learn as a Domme type because it goes against a lot of societal programing, is extracting obedience when there is resistance and things are going wrong. These rules from a military prospective should be kept in mind to help us. -You can’t expect obedience because someone owes you.-You can’t expect obedience because you have won a popularity contest.-You can’t expect obedience because it makes sense to them.-You can’t request obedience.-You can’t bargain for obedience. It is something you must command.

8/25/2022 8:52:55 PM: Thought for the day   'Everything will be alright in the end and if it's not alright, then it's not the end.' The best exotic marigold hotel. 

8/15/2022 6:27:51 PM: I want to be clear...here are my hard limits... Kids Animals Choking Guns Orgies/Gangbangs Swinger type events. I am into the power exchange not group sex Cuckold  Scat Serious Public Humiliation/ Sarcasm/ Degradation/ and/or blackmail Diapers Pacifers Bottles Dont ever call me mom or mommy Age Play Animal Play, no pony or puppy role play either ( can be done at very infrequent times but not for all the time) Sissy play (some femme is ok) Needle Play Tattoos /brands, unless you are collared I won’t tattoo you ... and even then I probably won't.  Blood Play Illegal Drugs and many legal ones Smoking/smoke Untruthfulness Ass to mouth. I will not take things from your ass and expect you to put them in your mouth Death play Vomit Occultism Paranormal things Vampirism Poppers or drugs

8/14/2022 9:12:38 AM: Many folks talk about the importance of watching for red flags when searching for a Domme. In truth there are red flags a Domme must watch out for when interacting with a sub. See some below: -Claims they have no limits -Pressures the Dominant into playing in ways that violate their personal limits. -Shows no care or concern for the dominants wants/needs -Insists on playing with no safe word -Only talking to the Dominant when they are horny -Making threats of doing something drastic if the Dominant leaves or does not talk to them -Calling the dominant names or honorifics without their consent  -Insists on playing with you when they barely know anything about you -Demanding money or gifts. If you think of other red flags to add, please let me know. 

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