Hello everyone.
I've been on this site for awhile now, and I have grown a lot over the past few years (especially pre-COVID). Full disclosure my previous id was HunterNPrey if you've chatted with me on there. I don't really want to update that profile because I've heard horror stories about profiles disappearing or being locked up in approval purgatory for months.
Here are some absolute must haves or bes for my future companion to my knowledge:
1) Single and no significant ex drama. I may go poly at some point never say never, but I want a woman that we can build a dynamic first.
2) No current drug use.
3) No smoking, or you plan on quitting real soon. I'm actually fine with having this be part of our dynamic if you need help quitting, but I've dated smokers before and I always had to take a shower and febreeze my sofa as soon as they left.
4) Willing (and preferably eager) to get somewhat involved in the local BDSM community. I have no desire to share or trade subs or anything like that, but I love showing off, so it may help if you have a bit of an exhibitionism streak.
5) Lastly, I am somewhat of a sadist. I definitely give off the half devil half teddy bear vibe. My sadism is usually satisfied more by a bottom's response than actually inflicting a given amount of pain.
Now here's the big change in what I'm looking for at the moment and hence the revision.
You must be willing to occasionally play the girlfriend role if our relationship is not purely romantic. I can't think of a way around this because I have vanilla friends and family and "hey meet my slave girl" doesn't usually work that well.
I'm eager to always explore, so you should be too. I also want a bit of a hybrid dynamic. At least some of the time I'd like to have a master slave dynamic, maybe not 24-7-365, but that's something we can discuss.
Lastly (at least for now) I'm at least part primal, so know that our play will probably be physical and intense.