Who I am...

I am an experienced, protective Dom who stands firm on my personal beliefs as far as how I conduct myself and my vision of how things must be. That said, I understand that others have their own personal beliefs of how they operate based on who they are to their core or their experiences. Everyone is not the same but in order for someone to be allowed in my space, they will definitely be expected to drop their own ways. 

When it comes to what I seek...

I seek a true submissive or slave. Meaning, she (or they) must truly feel within themselves that serving a man like myself and learning to be better through my direction is their true desire in life. Answering to and doing as told should come natural to who serves me. In doing this, it should be a feeling of pleasure to insure my pleasure.  Whether she has experience in serving,  doesn't matter to me.  Although,  she must be willing and able to serve. The overwhelming desire to serve me is more important to me and is the overall most important part to what I see as striving towards knowing you are who you were meant to be and who you were meant to be with.  I DO NOT tolerate so called subs or slaves that are fake or just curious about this way of life.  I know how to spot the signs if someone is fake or not in it for the right reasons according to what I seek.  I am looking for long term. So she should know before even one message sent to me or responding whether any of what I say here is something she agrees to be apart of.  Don't waste my time.  

As I mentioned before, I stand strong on who I am. This also means I am strict.  I do get physical as in punishment which has been different for each of those that served me based on their level of limits or hard limits which I do honor.  As long as they served as I wished outside of that I was was perfectly fine with that.  I know and understand subs and slaves are not all the same because certain lines are drawn before everything is made official.  

Sex is very important to me. I definitely enjoy the pleasure of being extremely freaky. At the same time,  I hold the mental aspect of a relationship very high. 

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Some background ination on me...

I am single, no children, employed, have transportation as well as my own home, educated, private, outgoing,  down to earth,  traveler, conversationalist, deep thinker but know when to relax and lots more. I wont say everything about myself because it would kinda kill the getting to know each other stage and things  would probably not happen as naturally. 

Im not on collarspace to wear a mask and be someone or something Im not. I do not want any drama or games. I dont want to waste my time. If I can get to learn about a true submissive or slave that is honest about who they are and what they are willing to offer me then things will go a lot smoother. 

 Again, I very much enjoy sex and it is definitely a huge part of who I am but,  I also require substance. I prefer a better and bigger challenge than just sex like a deep connection that leads to a strong bond. Sex can be a great experience when done right but its not all Im about.

If you are interested after reading this, you are welcome to send a message.