What am I am looking for?

Simply....real genuine connections.

Honesty...Trust....Respect

Anything worth having takes time and effort and that includes lifestyle friendships.  I am a demisexual.  It's best to educate yourself a bit and approach accordingly.  I do not tolerate disrespect nor will I have another's sexual needs forced upon me. Everyone starts in the friend zone and where it goes from there only time will tell.  Honesty, respect, and trust are a must

My biggest pet peave is the number of men who feel a sense of entitlement someones submission after exchanging one or two emails.  There is a difference between playing  the role...and actually genuinely being dominant.

What I am not looking for?

Cyber play, online dynamics, and pic collectors.  Sorry, it's just not my thing. 

**Those  who feel that truly getting to know the submissive is a waste of their time, or don't wish to have mental and emotional ties need not bother me.  Thanks.**