List of nonsexual forms of domination for Dominants

Ordering for Your sub at a restaurant

Choosing the sub's outfit for the day

Giving a bedtime

Corporal punishment for bad behaviour

Instructing the submissive to write Your name somewhere on their body daily

Training sub with non-verbal cues and verbal cues to correct unwanted behavior in public

sub must maintain a certain distance & position when in public

Teaching the sub how to greet You (on call/in person)

sub must wear a collar/necklace with Your name/title on it

Scheduling hypnosis time

Choosing and/or putting sub's shoes on for them

sub must ask permission before speaking

sub must ask permission before entering/exiting a room (could be in public/designated play/comfort room/ or at home

sub may only sit on the floor, on a cushion or in a designated chair

Scheduling exercise time for sub

Scheduled chore time

Controlling their alcohol intake(when they can drink, if they can't get drunk or cutting them off

Monitoring water intake

Monitoring screen/phone

Scheduling a time daily/weekly for sub to spend on their knees in silence, repeating a predetermined mantra

Instructing sub to complete scheduled chores in a required uniform and manner 

Serving its Dominant drinks/food

Having them eat on the floor without using their hands

Enforced nudity or near nudity in private/public (when appropriate)

Daily workouts

Enforced chastity

Asking it what its least/favorite foods are and feeding them what they least like except as a reward.

Choosing if sub is allowed to look at men/women in the eyes

Choosing sub's place for the night

sub has ask for permission via text message for any unsupervised activity (going out, having a drink after work, ordering a second drink). Must wait for a reply before proceeding. If someone inquires about this the sub has answer truthfully. “my partner does not allow it", or "I have to ask for permission first."

 

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BDSM:

It’s beyond chemistry, multiple psychological needs draw people into BDSM. Power exchange and Control includes:

 

 For Dominants

.  Deep satisfaction of being trusted with  Ownership and control.

.  Creative expression in directing and controlling scene's and expectations.

.  Nurturing through structure and care 

.  A fulfilling responsibility taken seriously with the ability to develop and evolve. 

 

For submissive's: 

.  Relieved from constant decision making through surrender.

.  Freedom in surrender 

.  Driven to be completely focused on by another.