Happily married and POLY ... lots of luv to share - to give ...   :)

DISCLAIMER: UNAPOLOGETICALLY AND IMPERFECTLY ME. If you can't deal, the door is over there, break on thru to the other side ... thank you JIM MORRISON ...   :)

I AM ALWAYS UNDER CONSTRUCTION, AS THE ONLY CONSTANT IS CHANGE. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE/SOMETHING TO LEARN, EXPERIENCE, AND SHARE ...   :)

EVERYTHING STARTS WITH FRIENDSHIP. WITHOUT THIS, THERE WILL NEVER BE ANYTHING MORE. EVER. I actually have to LIKE AND RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON …  :)

My husband and I have been together for over 12 years. It has been an amazing ROAD of DISCOVERY, both SELF AND OTHERWISE, in all aspects, on so many different levels. We SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE each other’s endeavors, whatever they may be. I am BLESSED, fully LIVING AND LUVING LIFE …   :)

I'd luv to find someone to add to my already blessed world. Like a "WICKED PRINCE CHARMING" type. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack that doesn't exist, tho, it could happen ... maybe ... the struggle between being an idealist vs being a realist. Or, it is being in realist vs being an idealist ...   :)

A Daddy's masochistic litttle girl ...    :)

SAPIOSEXUAL, FREE SPIRIT, NON-CONIST. EVOLVING, FLUIDITY, OVER EVERYTHING …  :)

NILLA - music, writing, klutz-o-matic on wheels (helpful if you have medical insurance!), pinball wizard (ya, I can kick your ass!), not afraid to break a nail, blood and gore movies, along with physiological thrillers and crime stuff, directionally fucked = please don’t even ask me to read a map … LOL … video, board and card games, major food issues (live on chicken!), scrapbooking, coloring, jigsaw puzzles, down to earth, unique, silly, creative, kitchen goddess/maker of sweet-treats, open-minded, trustworthy, compromise, honesty, integrity, thrift store whore (especially vintage!!), and then some …   :)

DISLIKES - peas, liver, CLOWNS AND MIMES, those fuckers are scary = lead to nitemares, lack of integrity, JEALOUSY, people who think they can drive, LIARS, Math = BOO ...  :(

WISHLIST: mudpit, sandbox, family of unicorns (mommy, daddy, boy and girl ... preferably twins). Perhaps a family of marshmallow peeps too ...   :)

ROMANCE – spooning, holding hands, kissing, pillow talk, bodies twisted together like a pretzel, chatting the nite away, thunderstorms/clouds/stars/planets/sunsets/sunrises, making a picnic on the living room floor with a blanket, cooking together, massage, reading erotica together, hot stones, watching clouds and sharing the shapes we see, traditional terms of endearment, serving breakfast in bed, sitting at his feet coloring, scrap- booking, curling up sharing a bowl of popcorn … and them some …  :)

KINK – electricity, fire, sting, thud, paddles, canes, whips, crops, needles, watersports, spitting, biting, not so traditional terms of endearment, cages, hair brushes, vacuum bags, sensory deprivation, belts, punching, needles, marks, being written on, hoods, masks, happy tears, being written on, clothes pins, blood, oral worship, spanking, duct tape, saran wrap, gags, candle wax, blindfolds, begging, role-playing/dress up, slapping, crawling, sharp & pointy, toys, choking … and then some. Oh, rite, I luv blood play ... EDGY - VERY INTENSELY DARK …    :)

WORD FETISHIST – both the voyeurism of and exhibitionist of, adore the art of communication in every . Not into word smut. Make an effort and put in the time if you want to know me, as I will do the same. The QUESTION AND ANSWER GAME is a great way to start ...  :)

SCORPIO - due to my EXTREME level of INTENSITY, I have been told that I am an acquired taste and can only be taken in SMALL DOSES ... THIS MAY OR MAY NOT BE TRUE ...  :)

Snack sized, barely making the height requirement for rides … LOL … brown eyes, shoulder length reddish-auburn which goes well with my SPIT FIRE PERSONALITY. Pennywise ruined me for life = not clown red, so, no need to worry if you have a phobia! Mimes are a bit scary too – LOL … BALL OF ENERGY … PIXIE/IMPISH like – or – is it – IMPISH/PIXIE like … best feature smile. Total girly girl, tho, not afraid to break a nail ... they grow back ... LOL ... in case you don’t like the webbed-foot look, mine aren’t even noticeable in stiletto’s! Socially outgoing … shy and awkward in certain settings/situations. Not the model type, in looks or otherwise … more so ordinary, plain jane-ish, simplistic, don't require much to be sustained, tho, mite clean up nicely, eh, who knows … if you are looking for a BARBIE DOLL, not only in body, but with a vacancy sign flashing in her head, we are not a match. One tattoo - a few piercings ... :)

PROGRESSION – the BODY is just a VESSEL of our THOUGHTS ... MENTALLY CAPTURE AND SEDUCE ME … his DOMINANCE is just as much a GIFT as my SUBMISSION … THE ORGANIC FLOW … THE NATURAL ORDER …  :)