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She endeavors to avoid their intentions before falling in love with a flower power prince or princess of wonder just her type

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It was my intention to update my profile, until I saw that it would be subject to review, limiting my access until such time as the powers that be approved the update. As we all know, these reviews can take forever, so journal updates it is.  It's been a minute since I had a snoop around here, and I now remember why I last tired of it...so much repetition of very basic information, so many idiots, very little connection.  Perhaps I can set out some basic fundamentals here, and direct people to familiarise themselves.  If you don't spark some interest, I won't be able to identify you from the others. Think about how many messages I receive, each with little to define them. The same taudry back and forth that bores me in every day life, where I am less than inclined to accept it from the general population, is not acceptable from you.  If you are unable to be transparent, I have no interest. The psychological ect of Ds situations is by far the more intense element. If you are unable to bare your deepest needs, to develop a level of blind trust in me that allows me to control your experiences we probably won't have much to talk about.  Kink is inextricably linked to this experience, but I am not interested in those of you experiencing this as merely a sexual experience. For me, those experiences lack depth, and give me no joy.  In terms of kink, my experiences have shown me that these things are best explored when there is an established Ds bond. If I don't know you, know your hopes, your fears, the things that drive you, well, finding the ways to control you that give me pleasure will be impossible.  I have spoken with many subs who imply they are more experienced than they are. Don't do that. I have no issues with novices. Whether you are experienced or entirely new to this side of life makes no real difference. If you submit to me, you will be moulded to fit me, regardless of what you have or have not experienced in the past…
From the moment you claimed me as yours, my soul found its purpose—to exist for your pleasure, your comfort, your pride. I kneel before you not just with my body, but with my heart laid bare, offering every fragile piece of myself for you to cradle or crush as you desire. This is my vow—not of duty, but of desperate, trembling love.     I will kneel naked at the foot of our bed each night, presenting myself for your inspection—my flaws, my imperfections, all yours to remark upon.   When guests visit, I will serve you on my knees, letting them see how eagerly I lower myself for you, their whispers like fire on my skin.   You may dress me in childish frills or nothing at all, laughing as I fumble to cover myself, only to surrender when you say "Show me." I will beg to bathe you, scrubbing your feet with my hair loose around your ankles like a servant’s shame. At parties, I will flinch when you snap your fingers, hurrying to your side as others smirk—let them see how well-trained I am. I will ask permission to use the bathroom, my thighs pressing together as you make me whisper why it’s urgent. You may feed me from your hand like a pet, my lips trembling around your fingers, too humiliated to meet your eyes. I will sleep on the floor when I’ve displeased you, curled around your shoes like a penitent. I will kiss the belt before it strikes me, grateful for the pain that proves I’m yours. You may compare me to past lovers, my tears watering the ground at your feet as I promise to be better. I will let you watch me squirm under strangers’ stares, your grip on my wrist the only anchor I need. I will thank you for the bruises—purple hymns of ownership sung into my skin.
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There's something seriously wrong with your brain if you're not enraged by the shit show dumpster fire that's occuring in our wonderful country every fucking second of every day since he stole the election.  Still supporting this disgusting and vile poor excuse of a human being is unimaginable to so many and yet here we still are. The lawlessness and lack of respect for our constiutution by the people running this clown show is impossible to comprehend.  There are far too many illegal actions occuring to list.  But the most recent that should make anyone with half a brain shudder is that the Epstein Files now have revealed that this piece of shit cult dicktator inserted fingers into 13 year old girls to test their tightness to determine their sexual value.  HOW CAN ANY OF YOU MAGATS STILL THINK HE'S QUALIFIED TO RUN WHAT WAS ONCE THE GREATEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD?!!!! Gunning down peaceful protesters in broad daylight is unconscionable. But there are no words for probing young girls virgin vaginas for thir perverted pleasure.  We can only hope there's a special prison/HELL for this administration and all the repugnicans that have chosen to turn a blind eye to the atrocities that continue to occur after a year of this craziness.  SHAME ON ANYONE WHO STiLL SUPPORTS HIM!!!!  Our only hope for significant change is the midterms.  This will be our big chance. Otherwise we're doomed. FYI, men have asked why I would voice my opinions hwere.  My simple answer if that I want nothing to do with anyone who has no moral compass or soul. SIMPLE. And you can message and berate me but it just shows what an imbecile you are. Maybe try turning off faux news and see what's really happening.   
Difference between being a man, a Dominant and a Master. All straight men naturally like being dominant in sex because we are programmed to be like that. Being a Dominant means that you like to have control over your submissive and they include outside the bedroom. But the control is basic to seen the submissive obey just in certain things. A submissive is a girl who likes to “role play” obedience, since she ONLY allows the dominant to dominate her in what SHE likes, which in turn is no real obedience. Being a Master is higher than being a Dominant, because the Master has spent time reading and studying psychology, physiology, anatomy, biochemistry, behavioral biology, administration, and even marketing to identify the slave’s needs, wants and know where to use which tools without causing permanent damage. The Master wants true ownership and obedience. True obedience is when the slave obeys in things she does NOT like, but part of her needs is to obey. She draws pleasure out of being obedient, making her owner proud, the humiliation, the feeling of helplessness, the control or a combination of them. A slave needs and wants true obedience and true ownership. The slave’s happiness is seen her owner happy. A slave is willing to go through pain or even extreme pain for her owner although she could be a masochist who also needs pain. But she knows her owner will go above her needed pain so that she can truly suffer and feel really owned. A slave’s priority is to serve. She is unselfish. A slave’s value is her weight in gold. Because the slave is always thinking on ways to serve her owner, she is above most vanilla women who are constantly thinking what gifts they can get from men. A Master and a slave relationship is the perfect bond since one gives what the other one needs to receive. A Master is first and foremost a gentleman who values knowledge and intelligence. He knows being a Master is much more work and study than what t…
Me and you are coming home one night from dinner. Im in a nice suit and your in a dress that hugs you body tight and shows a good amount of cleavage and heels. soon as we make it in the door I turn around and pin you to the door my hand around your throat. I kiss you hard. You g at the surprise kiss and I squeeze my hand around your throat as I break the kiss. You look at me with anticipation and your face all red from the pressure of my hand on your throat. I loosen my hand a little and let you breathe. I say - you weren’t expecting that now were you-. You jsut nod as I grab you by your hair and drag you to the bedroom. I take the handcuffs I had been saving in my pocket and cuff your hands behind your back. I throw you on the bed and walk over to a chest by the end Of the bed to open it and reveal a chest full of sex and boundage toys. I pull out a didlo that’s 9 inches long with big ridges all the way down. I wave it in front of your face. I ask sarcastically - is your hungry little Pussy able to take this?- I then go around you and begin to rub your pussy slowly till it’s juices are flowing. I then roughly shove the dildo in your Pussy as you give a little whine from it stretching your tight hole. I walk over to the chest and grab a gag you have never seen before. It’s a gag with a didlo on it. I give you a rough slap and shove the didlo down your throat and strap the dildo gag in place. You begin to spurt and gag as it stretches your jaw open and goes down your throat making it hard to breathe. I give your ass a nice hard slap as I rio your dress off of you destroying it and jerking you around like a rag doll. I throw you back in the bed and put knee on your back keeping you down as I wrap both my hands around your neck and begin to choke you. I then let out my fully erect cock and position it at the entrance to your ass. I shove it in hard and I see you struggle to breathe as my hands make you turn red. I whisper to you- you can bre…
Random ficlet: I gleefully stood, naked, and allowed my my hands to be bound together by a man who I knew wanted nothing more than to devour me. I grinned in anticipation as he guided my bound hands above my head and looped to tail of the rope through a chain hanging from the rafters above us. Once the rope was looped through the chain, I noticed him smirk as he pulled the rope tight and my arms were stretched further over my head until I had to rest mostly on the balls of my feet, leaving me in an unsteady stance.   I was so wet that I felt like my slick was dripping down my thighs and my pussy was clenching in anticipation and nervousness. I couldn't help but shift around in my eagerness and groaned as I felt my naked thighs sliding wetly against each each other as my pussy practically drips with want.    My eyes were wide as you faced me and pulled my right leg up to expose my pussy. You clutched your throbbing dick in your hand. I felt you take a moment to rub your cock along my wet slit, I hear you groan when your dick meets the warm and wet folds of my pussy lips. I feel your grip on my thigh tighten right as you slide your dick easily into my wet, slutty hole.   I groaned, and before I even had time to register the intrusion, you were pumping into me, eager to feel more of my slick, clenching hole.   This didn't last long, though, as it wasn't nearly all that you wanted. You pulled out, much to my displeasure, my pussy was throbbing and needed much more. I saw you retrieve the leather belt from your discard pants and knew my ass and thighs were about to be on fire and I shuddered in a combination of trepidation and want.   I watched you loop the belt in half and pull it taught, making the leather snap delightfully. When our eyes met, I watched your face turn predatory when you met my playful and challenging look. I grinned, and hoping to sound more confident than I was in that moment, I looked up at you said "Do not bo…
I am pathetic.  After everything that happened I swore off this life. I deleted Fet, removed all my social media, removed all my chats EXCEPT FOR CS only because I was afraid in the next few years if I returned to this life it would take Forever to make a new CS account. Which I guess is good as I have 1 avenue I can share these thoughts. In summary, I'm pathetic. I didn't even last 3 weeks before I was deeply depressed.  Which doesn't matter as I don't have a Master anyways.  By the way Master Tim wherever you are now, dead or alive, you owe me. You owe me big time. I was newly married, a house wife, in my 20's and I went online (back then) on Yahoo chat. I had just found a book on Gor the first book in the series and I had questions and I didn't know what to do with these newly discovered feelings. I just wanted to know what this meant. I'm a black female who was married to a black man and I had shown him what I saw and wanted to engage it. My husband said what black woman would ever want that life. I was mortified. Is there something wrong with me? I just wanted to know. Then I found Master Tim. Master Tim you didn't have to show me the lifestyle. For 5 years.  You wanted to meet outside of chat day 1 of talking. I agreed and thought I'd was being smart by saying a public place .. Like the library. You pulled up an older white man with leather on and a motorcycle. You looked like you came from the wrong side of the tracks. I was young (in my 20's but truancy officers still stopped me), newly married, black female who was probably too naive for my own good. I watched you sit on your motorcycle. I knew it was you. You didn't look like you belonged here.. it was thrilling to watch you knowing you were just like in the books. You finally got off your bike and went inside. I wanted to see more, observe more. I went inside. I didn't see you and went deeper looking through the book aisles. You cornered me and said my chat handle. I nodded and yo…
Many times I get the question about what happens when two tops meet. The concept of two dominant males sharing some sort of intimacy seems contradictory, after all no one conceives a dom without a sub. That is not always the case and I will, like in all my journals speak from experience.  There is a degree of power exchange between Doms and I do not talk about silly posturing and drama. If two dominant males find themselves alone and aware of each other,s preference coue of things will happen. Like I said there are degrees of asserting domination and sometimes one will yield and becomes submissive to the more dominant male.  There are reasons for this behavior, one is the overwhelming realization that amongst equals there is alway a better masks and truly no shame comes from realizing and internalizing that fact. I'm not implying the the more submissive is and will be a sub the rest of their life, no. What I am saying is that recognizing g who is the better man is what defines the boundaries of intimacy.  I have friends that have their fair share of submissives but once in a while they will come to me to serve and be bred. after, back to being a top. But why this behavior? Like I said overwhelmed by.  Dryer male they yearn to serve and be intimate. If a dime submits must be to someone better than them and someone they appreciate both as male and Bull. The other scenario I've experience is that broth being powerful males and bulls there is no submitting.  How then is that encounter? What I have experienced is the act of respectful admiration of each other bodies and rods. Eventually, it will get to self exploration and release by mastication. There is no phisicl contact but the admiration that can only a true bull can bestow on another bull.  It is very intense to have two powerful males together, alone, and horny. Their mutual pheromones make the atmosphere thick and  eventually there’s only one way out, taking matters …
This is a true story! I was 22 at the time. No one witnessed it but myself, so you will have to take my word for it! 23 years ago I was working the night shift at a manufacturing facility. It happened that I was left to lock the place up.Previous to this I had dabbled in Ball Torture, but being left alone, and horny I put in to motion a plan I had fantasized about.They had a 20' wide roll up garage door, so I raised it up about 4 feet. I put a large c-clamp around the bottom rail in the middle of the door. I found some cable similar to what you would use on a clothes line. The type that is coated in plastic. I got a slip knot ready for my hands. I placed a rolling office chair back from the door. Next I tied the cable securely to the c-clamp, left plenty of length I could lay on the chair with the back off to my left side and my belly on the seat. I also secured my balls with a slip knot and made sure the cable was trailing behind me between my legs. The cable was about 1/8" dia including the plastic coating. Even so, it was quite difficult to get it to tie. At this point I put my hands behind my back and stepped on the end of the cable so I could tighten up the knot to secure my hands.This is where the trouble began! I stepped over to the edge of the door, lowered it down as far as I could to give me a little more time. Then pushed the open button. I quickly ran to the chair and laid face down, with the cable trailing behind me and in-between my legs.I'm sure everyone has experienced a garage door slowly opening, and how impatient we are. Let me tell you, when that cable tightened up and started pulling me, it felt like we were speeding. There was no turning back even if I wanted too. I zipped up in the air in a flash. The chair kept rolling past me. I was literally hanging upside down from my balls with my hands tied behind my back! The feeling was intense as well as extremely painful. Not only was my full 165lbs at the time hanging from my balls, but the cable w…
Hello.  If you are a truly dominant woman or couple possessing high intelligence and integrity, I have a situation that may interest you. This isn't just about play or BDSM, I am offering a very well compensated job, as well as a life and a jump in lifestyle. Please read it all before you decide.  I know telling you I am real and this is legit is a waste of time because all the scammers say that.  Notice that my spelling and grammar are correct, and it's not a ridiculous offer, but very reasonable to the right dominant woman willing and able to accept it. You can Google VA caregiver and VA caregiver stipend.  When you do, ONLY go to websites ending in dot gov.  Anything else is NOT a real government website, though they try to fool you into believing that they are. I'm going to keep this to facts, because you will either be interested and want more details, or you won't be and there is no need for more info.  Please read about me in my profile and journal. I just learned, that because of my cancer and my recent disability rating increase, I will almost certainly be eligible to have a live in caregiver.  The VA compensates caregivers really well.  I can't mention numbers but you can find them in those URLs.  You would basically be helping me around the house with things which are difficult because of my disabilities.  By September I should be past all the side effects of the radiation so I won't need all that much help.  Which means you could go to school or work another job.  I will not give you a free ride.  I will expect you to pay something toward the upkeep of the house.  I will loan you the money for a car if you don't have one.What I am seeking is a 24/7 domme to enslave me in a consensual non consent relationship.  Yes, that means you will need to relocate to Phoenix, AZ USA, because I can't relocate. I own a large, very nice home in a quiet, upscale middle class neighborhood.  B…
stranger things I am absolutely, undeniably always attracted to the most random male attributes!. My body betrays any hint of ladylike grace and elegance when these are near:  some seem reasonable; denote strength, virility, ability to provide & protect, etc. -Infuriatingly, my train of thought derails immediately when a Tall Gentleman with a Commanding presence… presents. -Still waters run deep.  a thoughtful Man that makes the most of His words.. Oh good gracious, words escape me! -Large hands make my mouth water. Really. It’s a bit embarrassing actually. And for heavens sake, do Not point at me! My jaw drops. -Just don’t even get me started on a deep voicebc…. Well…. I’m a complete loss! Like a deer in headlights. And be still my heart if there’s the slightest hint of an accent?!😳. I just… oh dear These are characteristics of many a successful, beloved Leader! Totally ‘understandable’ right? But there are subtle nuances that make me especially attentive and forget what I was saying! -Like laugh lines. When a Huge Man is most comfortable with a Genuine Smile and wit, isn’t afraid to laugh loudly! I get this dorky smirk and stare unabashedly. -If He actually ‘gets’ my random 90s geekdom movie quotes or music lyrics.  I’m a goner. Princess Bride, Anamaniacs, Star Trek/Wars…. -when He Leads, Protaspects, Nurtures by nature a friend, employee, child, pet, good grief!  I just want to cuddle in like a tiny, lost bunny and nuzzle! -His preference is to connect and hold eye contact, with engaging conversation…. i can’t even. Just here, Take my Soul! -cargo pants. What’s with this one? As if he is ‘prepared’ at all times with some random macguyvery multi-tool to save the day?!  Swoon. (Utterly Humiliating!) -random facts and extrapolation…
Em (they/them), a disabled, nonbinary, Dominant human is looking for service creatures who want to be helpful and engage in service with someone who is very appreciative.    Tasks may include but are not limited to:   - Adventures in grocery shopping - Domestic assistance including but not limited to: dishes and kitchen care, laundry help, meal prep, and execution - Secretarial type work including but not limited to: admin type stuff and even just dictation, often regarding the podcast or other form of kink  education) - Grooming and beauty maintenance including but not limited to: bleaching and dying my hair, special occasions might call for doing my hair and makeup or helping me pick out clothes (and get into them if corset or leathers)   Requirements:   - Not bothered by 420 smoke (welcome to partake in the house) - Ok with big dogs (12 year old couch potato pittie) - Not a devotee, chaser, or “BBW lover” - I am more than my body. - I practice ethical nonmonogamy and currently have one partner, my husband. I am open to other relationships starting. Must be ENM or strictly platonic with me. - Open to all genders and orientations (except romance with heterosexual cis people as they wouldn't be interested in me anyway unless they saw me as a woman) - Age: 25-40 - Near Hutchinson, KS and willing to drive to me   Things I can offer in exchange: - a place to provide service that is meaningful and helpful - a space to be yourself in your gender and social expression - companionship - praise and appreciation  - education - training and skill development - advice - emotional support - tasks (toward personal growth) - accountability - sensual interactions (i.e. hugging, cuddling, playing with hair, etc) available if compatibility and connection felt and when negotiated. As a demisexual individual, I prioritize forming a deep emotional connection with someone before engaging in any kind of pla…
Oh, George… bless your heart for writing me a whole novel about how you want to “look into a sadistic woman’s eyes” while she perverts you into anal bliss. Truly poetic. But here’s the problem: you’re out here asking for a woman to host you for a month like you’re some kind of kinky exchange student, and all you’re offering is sexual gratification—as if women are sitting around saying, “You know what I need? A strange out-of-towner living in my house for 30 days to eat my food, hog my bathroom, and tell me how multicultural he is in between begging to be pegged.”   You spent time in multinational corporations? Cute. I’m sure your old coworkers will be thrilled to know you’re now out here writing essays about “soft sensual erotic rape play” and “verification photos” like you’re running a BDSM HR department. And let’s be honest—if the highlight of your pitch is “I’m not into pro dommes, but please abuse me sexually,” you might need to realize… sir, you are basically asking for free labor with room and board included.   It’s giving: “Hi, I’m George, I bring nothing but my dick, my mouth, and a suitcase of sci-fi DVDs. Please ruin me, host me, and feed me while I explore my journey.” My love, women are not Airbnbs for your perversion vacations. You wanting someone to host you for a month and offering nothing but orgasms is like me telling Amazon Prime, “I’ll pay for my package with good vibes and a smile.”   So, George, no—no sadistic woman is out here waiting for a floundering consultant to move into her house for a month-long pegging intensive. But I truly hope you find someone on Collarspace who’s willing to take on your… dissertation of desires. Godspeed.
"So into you" or why ob- ject -ification is not as flattering as some guys think it is The subject today will be centered around ob- ject -ification, and how lack of the right actions is getting in the way of what you want. Recently my day was spent prepping for Mom spending the night, which mostly meant me continuing to organize, clean and just generally improving the space in my sewing room, (the only real spare room) which has a futon, and most importantly, DOORS, so she can have privacy and quiet from my cats. Now, being ADD, I work better with music and company, so I put music on that she and I can both enjoy- a Pandora station based on the Doobie Brothers I started just for her. And being who I am, I tend to listen to lyrics, and then often find myself analyzing them. Usually, I'm specifically analyzing the relationship failings described in them. It doesn't always stop me enjoying the music, but sometimes I recognize the stalkery mindsets that filled our airwaves when I was young and impressionable. As were the guys who were listening. It's not surprising that we all grew up thinking these kinds of unhealthy behaviors and expectations were normal, and even romantic. Songs like Boston's "Let me take you home tonight," where a guy is explaining to a woman he's never actually met before that he's basically been stalking her and built a strong fantasy and expectations about who she is, and now he feels that she should absolutely feel both flattered, and obligated to have sex with him. "You must understand this, I've watched you for so long, that I feel I've known you, I know it can't be wrong," and goes on to say "I'm dreamin of your sweet love tonight, let me take you home tonight." So… he's been watching her for a long time without talking to her, decided who she was without ever having a single conversation, and, of course, imagining sex with her. A lot. And he tells her so, over and over and over. Let me do this thing I want. Let me do t…
The Brightest Mark of Ruin   She had warned him. Not with raised voice or trembling lip. The way a storm warns you: a change in pressure, a stillness that precedes something absolute. She had looked at him with those eyes that always saw further into him than was comfortable and said, quietly, with the patience of someone who has never needed to repeat Herself: "Your body is mine. Your word is mine. Everything you signed your name to belongs to me now. Cross me unforgivably and I will not punish you. I won't need to. You will lose everything we have built, and it will be like poison in your veins." He had meant it the way weak men mean everything: completely, warmly, right up until the moment it cost him something. There was a contract. A real document, negotiated with Her characteristic precision, each clause a brick in something She was genuinely building. He had signed it with both hands steady and the particular glow of a man who has just been given more than he deserves. The ink was barely dry before he started deciding which parts applied to him. The protocols She had built as architecture, the daily rituals that kept him tethered and honest, he let them erode with the indifference of someone who has confused being trusted with being unsupervised. Then he put his hands on someone else. Not a stumble. A decision, made repeatedly, to take what belonged to their bond and spend it somewhere cheaper. He came home from it and looked Her in the eye and said nothing, and that silence was its own act of violence. When She found out, She came to him without hysteria, without tears, with complete and devastating composure. She asked him once for the truth. What he did next cannot be softened. He became physical, used his body the way cowards do, and drove Her from the home and safety that had been Hers. She left not because She was weak but because She has never once in Her life tolerated the intolerable. She did not come back. She didn't need to. The com…
There he is, not too tall, gorgeous body, all man, all muscles, all mine. Kneeling and taking my rod like a hungry pup. I’m not going to lie, I’m a 57yo married bi man with a good looking uncut  rod enhanced by a metal cock ring. We spoke when he asked about my ring, he was fascinated. I always use it and never leaves my cock. I went to the gym and showered with it and wore no towel when I was out of the shower. That’s when he talks to me for the first time. One conversation led to the other and in day he asked me why I wore my ring and to my surprise if he could touch it. Right then and there I knew I had him. I offered to let him wear it to feel it but he hesitated. Why , I asked. He moved away and left.  The next few days he was distant but never far away. I kept my distance because I know every str8 male finds himself confused when it comes to like another man’s endowment. His brain is telling him one thing and his body is urging him to accept and surrender to the primal feeling growing inside. Eventually we met in the nearby cafe and he asked if he could sit with me. We spoke and again the cock ring came up. And I directed the conversation to our manhoods and how it is natural to look and compare. Then out of no where the question, “can you show me it again?” He is not interested in seeing my rod, so he says but I know the real motive. Later in the car I pulled up my rod but it was semi hard. “If you want to see it hard you either have to stroke it or suck it.” To my surprise he looked straight to my eyes and timidly at first he tasted his first cock. I leave the rest to your imagination. 
Serenity She walks into his lair with anxiety pulling at her as she watches her poise because he is a Master who holds great expectations. This excites her as her goal is to please him regardless of his high expectations. She knows he has had other slaves and she is eager to see where this leads, but he requires patience. She prostrates herself in front of him to show her submission and willingness. This act increases her anxiety but feeds her submission. This inspires the Master to pull the beast from within her, something so submissive must have an inner core that is her primal side. He wants to push her limits and chains her to the floor. He oils her because as he likes the marks, but he doesn’t want to rip her skin. He knows what his goal is and even the devil himself would be jealous of the effect that is yearning for. She was shackled to the floor with little to no movement allowed. He stood over her as she tried to hide her whimpers. She could feel the oil dripping around her thighs and in the crack of her ass. The Master asked if she was ok, and she took a moment to squeak out a yes Sir. She had to trust him, she knew this and found comfort that if he felt she was ready for such a journey then she was ready. She let go and opened herself giving the Master the ability to illicit the responses he was craving. The energy flowed with every interaction he created, she embraced it and as the pain and pleasure intertwined and came to climax her submission climbed with it. He brought her back down where she laid still but shackled limp and panting. He draped a blanket over her it was soft and warm, he placed a small pillow under her head, and he gave her small sips of water through a straw. He directed her to drink, and she did as told. He sat next to her watching as she slowly came back. Slowly he unshackled her and embraced her. She was now curled up to him on the floor where he continued aftercare. She was fulfilled as he was obviously proud of her and e…
Hello prospective submissive, I'm glad my post caught your eye, I've been looking for my pet slave for quite some time now, and I do hope you are going to be the one to fulfill both of our desires. But first, let me tell you a bit about what I'm truly looking for:I search for a submissive that, from the bottom of her heart, desires a relationship with her dom, her owner. This dynamic, and relationship, would be built upon a foundation of transparant communications, triplicate (physical, mental, and emotional) care, and proven mutual trust. Within this, I expect that my word and intentions are the law by which the submissive is beheld to, for her to surrender, both her control and her worries, completely to me, for I shall be the one to lead and to guide her. I do not mind to start off with long distance, but when the time comes, I would expect for her to be with me, and I have the means to ensure this happens, be it relocation assistance or otherwise.She should expect to have protocols be taught and enforced, be able to execute my instructions in a timely and satisfactory manner, assume basic household duties, engage in pet-play or pet-play adjacent activities, and eagerly look forward to affection in all its forms. Shared hobbies, especially nerdy ones, and deep conversations of whatever topics that graces the mind will be part and parcel for the healthy maintanence of the relationship.Do not mistake my kindness for a lack of structure or lack of the darker side of play, I am more than capable of providing affectionate cruelty with humiliating remarks, sadistic orders, and physical discipline. Ultimately, the shape of the dynamic-relationship will be influenced by the experiences we both share. If any of this resonated with you, and you are someone that places her owner first, I invite you to reach out. I want to learn more about you, and there is no substitute for communication.Do you think you would be the one to catch my eye? I look forward to finding out,Your f…
The Epic Story of my First Munch Pt 2  The guy i was seated next to was in his thirties. Man, i gotta tell you, he talked nonstop! i really mean it too. Looking back, i'm not even sure how he ate any of his lunch. During the course of his monologue, i picked up on the fact that he lived on the same street as me...a small street in a small residential neighborhood. Turns out we live two short blocks away from each other! i also learned that he is an artist, and a beginner or intermediate rigger (Rope Top). Then there was me, just trying to make sense of it all. Even with the very different, very strong personalities there (or maybe, because of), the conversation flowed and it was really pleasant! It really helped that i already knew the hosts via online connection, and had met the younger guy in person. And after listening to the rope enthusiasts' life story, well, after an hour i certainly felt like i knew him, too. After the good food, beer and good conversation, i was feeling expansive, generous, and wanting to keep the party going as they say. i knew that the hosts smoked weed, so i mentioned that i had some, but didn't live alone so wasn't at liberty to invite everyone over. They took my hint and offered up their house, a few miles south of the venue. All five of us got in to our cars and convoyed over to the hosts' house. As the smoke drifted, so did the conversations. The hostess showed me some of the art projects that she had done. i made fun of the young guy who, having no tolerance for weed, promptly started to fall asleep sitting up on the couch. The host ("daddy") was always there in the background, seemingly just waiting for the action to start. i finally got a word in edgewise to the rigger, and let him know that we were neighbors, and that i was a bit of an artist as well. And also that i had a strong interest in rope. For a few moments at least, he didn't talk and took in what i said. Of course the hostess heard this exchange and of cour…
The below is a great place to start.. Rules 1. The male must always practice respect, whether in private or public. Stand when she enters the room. Sit (or kneel) as soon as She is seated. 2. Be totally attentive: open doors, offer her your coat, she sits first, begins to eat first, and always ask permission to leave her presence. 3. The male should never speak unless spoken to, or unless anticipating the needs of his Mistress. 4. The submissive will never sit with legs spread or slouch in a way typical of untrained males. Good posture and decorum is a sign of respect. 5. The male will never stare at a woman without her permission. Unless the woman seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times. 6. When walking with his Mistress, or any woman, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The male should always be at least 1-2 steps behind, but not too far because he must open all doors. 7. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout. 8. The male surrenders control of how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. 9. The submissive must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him but to his Mistress. It is Hers to use or deny... however she sees fit. 10. The submissive may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a wash cloth or brush, never his hands. 11. The submissive should never buy his own clothing without the guidance of his Mistress. He should buy what pleases her, not what he likes. 12. When urinating, the submissive will always sit on the toilet... no exceptions. 13. The submissive must submit to eating only “submissive food” selected by his Mistress whenever she requires it. 14. When a meal is over the submissive must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes. 15. The submissive must always gi…
Didn't get through a little challenge called LockTober...  it's a fun excuse for for people into chastity to go a month without an erection or jerking off...  if you're into the fetish it's like Jack Skeleton discovering Christmas Town for the first time... I lasted like 2 weeks.   But my friend is dope, and after communicating (she's also an ex) boundries, she turned around and was like, "Now about your pennence..."  And I basically agreed to be her slave for a month. She had me jacking off everyday, picking out girly clothes, but then made me stop all orgasms 😨, and start wearing the underwear and etc., November 1st... on top of locking me back into a chastity cage full-time.  I know it's a weird fetish...  but omg. She knows me well, she's trans, and she knows how to make me really like her form of domination.  Chastity just MAKES me so damned subby, and girly, and slutty, and over the moon kinky.  Words don't convey the feels... the lustful horny cravings are unbearably intense at first. But it calms down, and you get kinda gentled.. I woke up yesterday and feeling in my heart she was honestly becoming my domme again.  She's long distance and has her own primary relationship (I love being poly) so I'm starting to look for munches and make local friends in the lifestyle. Oh I wanted to explain the pictures I'm uploading... *edit I'll upload photos later when I can allow my profile to go into 'validating' mode for a few days.* My KH sent me another package, and it steps up the feminization a bit. We kinda renew our arrangement, for another week, every Friday. She's like, "Do you want to stay locked up for another week Kitten?" And at this point I'm just plainly honest, "Yes please, I'd like that very much."Then she'll somethng like, "Good boy."And I kinda just melt 🥰. Anyways, it helps this little anxious commitaphobe from getting nervous.  = )
Im thinking ok, Im game for this.  I don't have to do anything just have fun and report. I get to the club in a cute but nice tshirt style button up dress and tennies.  I get there and i see a group of people from the conference.  I walk over and sit and talk with them all.  we have several drinks and good laughs over the next 2 hours. One of the guys is talking to me, he is married in his late 40s and a total dad bod. But is super fun to chat with.  we all walk back to the hotel, we all head back to our rooms.  I message john about the fun night. he asks if i talked to anyone and i told him about Tom.  He says cool. and I should text him, and he sends me his number.  Im like WTF.  He laughs, and says Tom is a friend of his. and I can flirt if i want to.  I am tipsy and say why not.  I text Tom and say hey i was actually told to message you to chat if you are interested.  Tom says yes, and admits that John messaged him and said I would be a fun flirty safe chat buddy here.  He asks if i am still wanting a drink.  I say sure. He says he will be up to my room in 20 and will bring beer. 20 on the dot Tom knocks and I let him in.  I have a room with a balcony, we go sit outside and spend the next 1 and a half just talking and drinking. Tom then confesses that he has a fetish his wife is not interested and John knowsnothing about.  Im like ok what do tell.  lol  he says he likes to spank.  Im like oh ok, i have heard that is a common fetish and can be fun.  We talk more about it and me in my extremely state and still in my dress, stands up, flips up the back of my dress and flashes my butt to him. He has a surprised look and I ask if i was spankable.  He said yes most def.  we laugh and continue to drink.  Its now 3am, i am really drunk and tom is pretty tipsy. I ask if he will spank me!!  He has a shocked look. I say just a fun spanking he was like u…
In Januaury of last year I started a path I never saw myself doing... I hired a trainer and started working out 4 days a week... I feel like there should have been a betting pool, or something, because I NEVER expected to be on that same path a year and four months later...but here I am, healthier, at least 40 pounds lighter, and feeling so much better, physically, mentally, emotionally and about myself. I constatnly amaze myself with things, like how four years ago my doctors said I'd never lift more than 10 pounds... last Wednesday, I did dead lifts at 205 pounds for 5 reps... or how they said I would never be able to handle running again, I started jogging on the treadmill (supervised of course) and have a total of 5 minuets over 2 days, not bad for something I haven't done in over 20 years, and for someone with "heart failure"... In the last 20 years of my life, I've gone from an active live to inactive, a 30 waist to a 46, now back down to a 38, inching (get it?) closer to 36 actually... and all I can thinks is "Wow! I really like doing this!" You see, when I was a kid, it was the "jocks" the weightlifters, the football ogres, I mean players, that bullied harrased and made me feel insecure about being gay, if only they tried that today... anyhow, I never figured that this training I do now would be enjoyable because of that. Actually it's more than enjoyable. I get out of bed in the mornings with energy, ready to conqure my day and all that it throws at me! All because one day, I decided I wasn't gonna let heart failure win. Because I decided to be a healtheir, better me. And because I literally dared myself to do it! Who knows, maybe in a few weeks I'll give a progress update...