Due to my profession, I will not reveal my face on my profile. However, I have no problem sending a facial pic directly if there is sincere interest.

I am smart, educated, attractive, divorced, no kids, prior military, younger-looking, and in-shape looking for a connection. I am definitely an Alpha and have been primarily dominant in all my past vanilla relationships, but have switched before in a BDSM relationship due to the dynamics with a prior dominant partner.  I am respectful of roles, so I do not top from the bottom and expect the same in a submissive.

I am primarily seeking a connection with a good person first and then add a layer of Ds on top. I highly value an intelligent, confident, assertive, and nice lady. I also value similar interests as I prefer some type of a relationship or play partner over just a one-off encounter. I am not a masochist nor seek one, so I am much better suited with someone more sensual over a sadist, but like some level of some sadism. I am prior military, so I like structure and discipline, but one does not need to yell to get things done. No good leader should ever have to do that. I am very eager to please someone I respect; not someone spoiled or lazy. I also need to have a way to succeed in effort to please my partner or I will become frustrated very quickly; especially with brats or bitches. I am always looking for ways to anticipate the needs of my partner in whatever role they feel most natural.

As for any kink or fetishes, it is much more about the mental aspect or power exchange than the act itself. I will push limits if it turns on my partner. I am claustrophobic, so any fetishes with cages, plastic wraps, breathe play, Queening or face sitting while bound, and mummification is a hard limit. However, I am ok with hoods, blindfolds, and bondage once trust is established.  There are a lot of bad Doms or Dommes out there, so proceed with patience and caution.

I look for someone to bring out the best in each other and perhaps awaken our inner most desires that could bring happiness to us both.