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TheMissPam
Pan Female Dominant, 30, Texas US 
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TheMissPam

 

WARNING: Anyone over the age of 40, with genitalia photos on your profile or as your profile photo, are based out of a non-english speaking country - DO NOT MESSAGE ME. YOU WILL BE BLOCKED. Thank you.


About Me
I'm neurodivergent and have been a Female Dominant and Mistress for more than 10 years. I firmly believe in female supremacy. I believe that every man is born betasubmissiveinferior and it is the nurture outweighing nature that determines whether they remain that way or not. If men arent being trained to be used as domestic slaves then they should be treated as infants and toddlers since they dont have the maturity or intelligence or wisdom to know any better or to be given any sort of real world or adult responsibilities.

I have also been a Femdom mommy to a good handful of sweet little abdl boys who needed some nurturing and discipline in the last seven years as well (but thats not what Im looking for as of now either). I also am NOT looking for a love interest or sexual partner (I am biromantic and asexual, taken romantically) - Ive been in a loving and committed FLR relationship for years now and will not compromise that for anyone. This is my lifestyle choice but I would never shove it in the faces is of vanillas - theres great power in subtly. And Id appreciate the same respect from Male Doms thank you.

Some of my everyday hobbies/obsessions include


Photography (street/lifestyle)

Writing (Poetry and prose)

Film commentating ( movies and tv in general)

Technology, Major Tech-head and Software Engineer in the making (I live for watching CES online every year, AI, Machine Learning, and Deep Learning are fascinating!)

Music (eclectic taste but mainly 90s, indie acoustic alternative, rb, alternative rock, bubblegum pop)

Psychology and the Behavioral Sciences (I hold a bachelors degree in Psychology)

Travel (road trips galore! Specially for concerts and standup - Ali Wong and Iliza Shlesinger for the win!)

Crocheting

Reading (Fiction, Poetry, and Psychology)

Photo Editing (Affinity not Adobe)

Disney (Renaissance none of this remake stuff)

Trying out local eats (or on the road)

BDSM
What I AM looking for is a domestic slave (male, be it pan gay trans ace bi hetero, etc -  I welcome all) who is young (27-34 preferably), fit (or at least a bit leanermuscular than average), kind, and who withholds the same values and beliefs as I do. A boyeunuch who believes that histheir Owners happiness, approval, and ability to go through Her day to day a little easier because of him, is its own reward.

Some of the things I look for in a male slave are as follows

Someone who knows themselves.

Knows who they are what they want and need.

Knows their place and is most happy and at peace there.

Someone with a personality.
Someone dependable.

Someone eager to go above and beyond not just the bare minimum.

Obedient.

Patient.

Kind.

Caring.

Proactive.

Someone flexible.

Honest transparent and comfortable being vulnerable.

Faithful.

Willing and able to commit.

Someone with some experience and little to no baggage.

To name a few things.

This position I hold open is for something longtermpermanent 247 only, that will more than likely become a live-in situation (once the apocalypse is over and maybe six months to build trust, foundation and for training to happen). FILL OUT YOUR PROFILE PLEASE. Anyone with a bare bones profile will almost 100 be IGNORED by Me. I need to get a sense of who you are, how you identify, your experience level and background. Take that barebones nonsense elsewhere. Please no active duty military men (if youre contract is up thats fine), cross dressers, vanillas, complete newbs or males who need help exploring their submissive sides, men topping from the bottom, in bedroom only people, or sissies. Local and relocatable people only. Local is preferred. Do not waste my time and I will not waste yours. Thank you

8/14/2022 7:36:53 PM: This would be a day in the life for my potential lifestyle male slave. If it sounds more than just appealing to you please message me. It's so hard to find good help these days. (: They're up at 5am because I'm up at 6am and are dressed and groomed before making my (and if he stayed the night, my boyfriend's) breakfast and then feeding the dogs and putting the first load of my laundry in the wash. While that's going I expect them to put the dogs out and clean up from their cooking mess before coming to wake me - gently - at 8am if it's not a morning I say I'll be sleeping in a bit the night before. If that's the case I'd rather they just broadcast a wake-up greeting (there's Google homes all over the house for broadcasting convenience). I will get up, shower, change into the clothes I'd of had him iron and hang out for me the night before. And after I've washed my hair and changed - I'd come down to eat. (While I'm in the shower they will if he stayed - get my boyfriend - who I will have already gotten up and had showered with me and then dressed after me- downstairs, and on his chair, and his breakfast prepared by the time I'm out of the shower). By that point the first load of laundry should just have been put in the dryer and the second load in the wash. The dogs will remain outside till I finish my meal. Then he will let them in, take care of my dishes, and and begin the daily cleaning of the kitchen. Wipe everything down. Four times. Once with a wet soapy sponge. Once with a dish rag. Once with Purell. And once with a paper towel. Load the dish washer and run it. At this point I will make a list of chores for them to complete that day that will be in addition to the every day cleaning they would be responsible for. Vacuuming the house, dusting the furniture, meal prep for me, taking care of the dogs, watering the plants outside and vegetables, and laundry. These additional things can be washing my car, cleaning the pool, getting groceries, meal prep for lunch later that day. If they have errands to run they'll be on a separate list left there too. The errands and grocery purchasing is to be done once the kitchen is taken care of and there isnt going to be wet things sitting in the wash finished and waiting for the dryer while they're out. Preferably while I'm working out. After I've eaten I'll be in the home gym from working out for the next hour to two hours. Once I finish I'll take another shower, change again for the day, and either have a day in lounging around, day in doing work, or go out for the day. While I'm busy doing what have you - they will be in the house finishing all the laundry, folding, hanging, putting things away, taking care of the rest of their chores list, and then whatever extra things are on the list for that day or that week. I don't need my lunch put out for me just the kitchen counter set for me to grab my prepped lunch from the fridge and heat it whenever I get hungry. Dinner should be started between 4 and 5 o clock in the evening. I expect to eat about 6-7pm. And I like options for my dinner. 2-3 depending what ingredients we have on hand and what additional ingredients are easy to go out and get. Glass of wine with all my meals is preferred. Any grocery shopping is done by them with a bicycle. Because I'm in walking distance to a big heb (grocery chain) and in walking distance of a Walmart (for everything else that isn't specialty). Also 2 miles from a comet cleaners if need be. While I'm eating dinner dessert is expected to be made. It should be served a good half hour to hour after dinner (whenever I've gotten comfortable on the couch and the movie I picked or show I picked to start the evening off with has been started). While I relax the kitchen will be recleaned dishes taken care of. Whatever is left of laundry is being taken care of and I've been draped with a blanket and given a comfy pillow for my media consumption. Once they are finished with everything I'd expect a small tray brought out to me with either hot cocoa or hot apple cider or matcha with a small plate of whatever said dessert is. If I don't want that dessert that evening I'll give notice while it's getting finished and will prefer it for breakfast the following morning with tea or cocoa or cider. If that's the case I expect a salted snack in a small bowl with a glass of kambucha and ice to with it for my media consumption snack. Once that's done they will kneel at my feet and massage my feet while I watch. About half an hour before I plan to retire to my room (I usually go through two films a night or the equivalent in hours of media consumption), they will go and turn down the bed for the evening, run my bath towel through the dryer for my night shower, and put out my pjs for the night. They will then start my shower to get the warm water going, and then come back into the living room to take my tray, deal with those remaining dishes and pick up after me with the blankets pillows lamps and remotes as I begin to trek to my quarters. At that point I will either dismiss them for the night or have them join me for some conversation or company before I fall asleep. Or to vent. They are responsible for making their own time between chores to and things to fix and ear their meals. They're entitled to leftovers only if it's something I don't plan to eat again or something we have way too much leftover of. They will end their night sleeping on the floor of my laundry room or the living room couch with two blankets and a pillow.

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